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[–]No_Raspberry3670 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Just be involved in a lot of things with your school. Join sports, clubs, attend events etc. You’ll get to know a lot of people very quickly. And you’ll basically know a few faces anytime you walk down the hall, from there it’s an easy in to start talking to/meeting whoever they know etc. You’ll feel like mr social while walking down the hall bc you know everyone, and that will already make you inherently attractive. Then when you start talking to a girl she’ll probably have already seen you around/heard your name before from people.
Source: I basically did all of that in a high school with a graduating class of 800 people. And i started off 9th grade being a nobody that ate at the detention table bc I had no friends. By end of senior year almost everyone had at least heard of me and I’d get plenty of girls attention.
[–]VascularOlive 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sports, clubs, events. THANK YOU.
For anyone not in high school, this applies to you too.
[–]getyahfuckingyeeted 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is great advice, but only works if you're not shy.
[–]No_Raspberry3670 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OP mentioned he’s already been doing cold approach so I’m assuming he’s not shy
[–]No_Raspberry3670 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This post isn’t really about being shy, that’s a topic for a different post
[–]valteri777 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh shit brother i advise not to cold approach cause based on my experience high schoolers gossip a lot or flex to their friends that they’ve been taking to you. What you could do is join lots of activities, wether they’re clubs or orgs, just to make friends. Start from their cause friendship is a good foundation and you could even meet their friends. You can also slide into their stories subtly.
But what worked for me was having good friends and if ever i’m near someone I’m attracted to, I just ignore her. I swear ignoring a pretty girl is the key to attract her trust me.
[–]tokyohen 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you
[–]20Humble5050 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Have you gotten any signals of interest from girls before?
[–]tokyohen 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah
[–]stanthemilkman88 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow so young and doing this. Great hustle. Though I would invest time going to the gym and researching a degree that pays or a trade.
[–]brodkinbangers 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Since you see a lot of girls in your hs all the time, I’d suggest taking the approaches slow. Have friendly convos with a lot of the girls and build them up next time you see them. Don’t have to go for #s or anything immediately. If you want to get really good at cold approaching, I’d recommend going to a different town or city and just cold approach an insane amount of girls who you’ll never see again. Then you’ll come back to your high school like a champ
[–]AelfredRex 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, it does sound desperate. Plus it's a closed system. Once you've hit on every girl, what's left? Just smile at the hotties and see who smiles back.
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