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[–][deleted] 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dress nice, be confident in doing what you are doing, do what you want, act how you want, own your space. Have fun and meet some new people. Going solo is a huge opportunity. I do it all the time and have a lot of success. Just don't single yourself out or hold yourself back from the interactions you intend to put out there. Be confident, don't worry about what other people think of you and good luck! Have a great time!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What do your approaches look like?
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Strike up a conversation with people in line. Very easy way to make friends. People are nicer than you think and will even let you join their group. Also, recommend a drink that you really like, and mention that it’ll get you fucked up fast and cheap (I usually go with the Long Island)
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[–]Lust9897 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It’s awesome that you put yourself out there though! That’s awesome!
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[–]Lust9897 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m a lot less confident in that arena. I had to move back in with my parents, and I can drink cuz of meds. I can but it’s highly not recommended.
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[–]Lust9897 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s actually pretty reassuring. I always felt weird after all that happened with my medical. I might go do that. Could be fun.
[–]UnknownThrowaway18 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just went out last week for the first time n it went great. Just be yourself n don’t be nervous. If you’re nervous, everything goes wrong. Trust me, you got this
[–]IDhl89 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Give us an update tomorrow!! It might Motivate us to do the same…
[–]willgo-waggins 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good luck man!
[–]Hoho2332 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I went out solo last night as well
[–]Nimexu 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Wish I could say something but I’m no alpha just be yourself good luck
[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
alpha/beta is the biggest whack shiit ever, same with introvert/extrovert, you can be both depending on your mindset+ energy levels (that depends on your hormones, we are literally machines operating with chemicals that dictate our behavior),they tryna corner you in a box and limit you, dont let them
[–]L0n3W01f_ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True shit my bro, never simplified it like you did
[–]roostzilla 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Assume every girl is already in a relationship until they express they are not. Squinty Eye contact and a laidback demeanor go a long ways my dude. Cheers
[–]loofyd 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
where will you go ? clubs or bars ?
will they allow you to enter club without a girl alongside you ?
asking because here you need a girl to enter a good club
give an update on how your night goes !
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[–]loofyd 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When you're done with your night, lmk what Instagram magic did you play
[–]L0n3W01f_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Really they didn’t let you in by yourself? What state do you live in? I live in DMV (DC, Maryland, Virginia) and as long as you pay the entry fee you are allowed to go in
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[–]L0n3W01f_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh lol, how did you night go bro? Hope you had fun. Not sure how it like in Germany but would love to visit some day
[–]Confident_Opposite43 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is what I found weird with Berlin, unless you have equal number of girls some clubs wont let you in…
[–]Equivalent_Ad7389 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Don't approach women when you're drunk, that's just stupid. They deserve more than that.
[–]Equivalent_Ad7389 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good, you're killing it then.
[–]devansh30 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Best of luck
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