I notice I lose my power when they realize I am attracted to them, so how do I turn things sexual and maintain the pwoer dynamic?

ORIONFULL23 · 2021-12-03T02:17:55+00:00

You just answered you own question, dont let her have you, simple as that, the dynamic that you want to create with women is that they will have to make an effort to have your presence/attention.

If you notice that she's making less effort to be with you you will give her space, if she wants to know things about you, you wont answer their questions,

Women have a detective trait, she will investigate you but you need to dont give information about you (even your feelings) so easily, let have her pleasure to discover things about you, they enjoy that process

And finally when you feel like she's starting to figure you out, thats the moment to change things

ParticularScience869 · 2021-12-03T16:32:06+00:00

Maybe you’re not as interesting as you think you are. Maybe you’re pretty superficial based on you being a “magnet” 😂

darrellgh · 2021-12-03T03:19:42+00:00

Be sure you re-read what you typed if you’re texting her.

Radio_Unique · 2021-12-03T22:32:15+00:00

still pursue women, but also must be busy with ur passion, if u don’t have hobby we get bored

recyclablebanthas · 2021-12-04T03:11:29+00:00

I am a magnet for women......

Seduction is, like any social interaction, a fairly complex thing with a lot of moving parts. To sum up the whole beginning part of this process with only six words is leaving out a lot of information.

It's possible that there are mistakes being made even at this stage that are snowballing on you later.

So can you lay out the basics of what you do and how it generally goes when you are in this role of woman magnet?

Where are you meeting them?
How are you opening them?
What is the opening conversation generally about, if there's a pattern?
How do you come up with content for the opening conversation?
How do you end up with their contact information?
What do you generally set up for your first meet with them? And what kinds of things do you generally do for the first meetup?
You've mentioned that you have sex with some of them at least. How far do you usually get before they cut out? Kissing? Sex? Something else?
What is typically cited as the reason by them when things are cut off?
What are your actual goals here? Casual sex? A relationship?

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It's really difficult to say what's going on under the hood until we know what you've been doing up to the point that these results are occuring.

It might be an issue with your screening process at the beginning, something you're doing just before they cut out, or something else.

Kobe_curry24 · 2021-12-03T22:08:30+00:00

Tbh your problem is not the women it’s you being able to deal with your sexual shame and getting what you want ,your prolly self sabotage things and you don’t even notice it , women leave clues but you gotta be on your toes and comfortable enough with yourself to get there

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ManagerIllustrious72 · 2021-12-03T14:37:57+00:00

Constant teasing and push pull. Keep her on her toes. If you compliment her, tease her shortly after.

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2021-12-03T06:57:42+00:00

Learn to f*ck her properly, do some real kinky stuff and make her cum.

Seriously put her on her belly and do some PIV from the back. You'll be pushing against that nerve center in the front of her vagina. I'm sure she'll come back for more.

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Title	I notice I lose my power when they realize I am attracted to them, so how do I turn things sexual and maintain the pwoer dynamic?
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Upvotes	28
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Date	December 3, 2021 1:36 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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