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[–]blaze_eternal 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Say "yes" to it.
Get the time and place for the next party and show up.
She made out with you at the first party and she wants to see you again in the same setting. I can't imagine that being a bad thing.
Just be cool and be you and let her drive for a bit. You'll probably like where she's headed.
[–]theyforgotmyname 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And drink less, rotate water or soda. It matters
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the way.
[–]willgo-waggins 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This but be aware that you should treat this as casual/fun and nothing even remotely potentially serious unless proven otherwise.
From my experience girls who want this environment tend to want the opportunity to “let down” (ie - drink as an excuse to flirt, slut it up, etc) and are not looking for anything serious.
[–]Lord_Gudda 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like a good reply. She replied and she wants to meet you.
[–]mjornir 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
that’s absolutely a good reply, very promising nice work king
[–]fhdgufhufji 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Congrats mate, she wants to meet you.
[–]Missmatche 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
(Female here) That's a good sign. If she didn't like you, she would say she's busy or wouldn't have replied.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seems like a good direction
[–]bemore_ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure
[–]Diligent-County-721 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Means she isn’t comfortable enough to meet with you one on one yet. If the party lines up with your schedule go for it. If you wanna polarize her more say something along the lines of “I’d like to get know you better how about we grab some drinks, just me and you” Edit: re-read your post
[–]blue_barracuda 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Definitely good. I would say "Sounds cool, I should be able to swing by"
[–]3aglee -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
In my opinion it's a good reply, but not in the way you think. It's a shit test, which means she's attracted to you. She's might be setting a party friend frame and checks if you are going to chase her which might not lead to what you want. I would try to reframe that so she chases you and not the other way around. Or go to the party and take her out of it.
Overthinking here.
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