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[–]boycott-mondays 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Positive reinforcement.
Be happy to see her. Give her a high five when she tells you something positive that she did
If I met the girl once already, the second time I meet her, I will go in for the hug.
Be playful with her, tease her a little bit (if you constantly keep giving her positive reinforcement, she will become uncomfortable, so you got to tease her a bit)
Talk to her the same way, you would talk to your guy friends. (When my friends mess up, on something, usually I tease them the whole night) same thing with the girl. Don't put her on any pedestal
Also very important... Take big breaks when talking to her. Go talk to other people. Don't give her all your attention. Give her space to breathe
And always end on a positive note
[–]eonscrewedme2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
this is great thanks
[–]MotiMorphosys 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She's going to be mirroring your attitude. If you act casual and not nervous, it will ease her nerves. Not completely, but quite a bit. If you act nervous, it will get very awkward very fast though.
From what you've said it's clear she's into you and you shouldn't have much trouble. Go for it.
[–]eonscrewedme1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
very true on mirroring.
[–]Ljhasta 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I AM AWESTRUCK AND HUMBLED BY YOUR RADIANCE. INFACT, YOU ARE.. EXCEPTIONAL.
Ikr
[–]zan224 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Never tell her that you know. I wouldn’t to be her ..
yeah I won't
[–]Ljhasta 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The answer is extremely simple, Infact you already know the answer.
Put her at ease. Show your interest in her. Make her comfortable.
[–]ASIMILAK 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Chicks are sensitive
[–]Big_Confusion6500 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Put her on blast, tell her this word for word, "Look I know you like me and I like you, will you go out on a date with me?".
You're a man and shouldn't be worried about such things. She is woman and she will be with whatever man she chooses to be with. If she says no, be cool with her anyways. If she says yes, then you got you a girl. Clear up the air, it's one of our superpowers as men. And don't worry about being nervous or scared, just do it anyway. She will most likely chill out regardless of her answer.
And yes I've done this before and it works. And never make her the same offer twice. Nobody gets to front on you, and get a second chance. You got this.
[–]eonscrewedme 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I've done this plenty of times, and my experience has been that most often than not putting people on the spot, particularly nervous people, triggers a flight instinct. Sure, it has the effect of putting you at ease, but my results on this haven't been great.
[–]Big_Confusion6500 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The flight instinct will never leave. Sort things out now. This is about you being a man and not wasting your time dealing with an indecisive chick. After all she is playing you way more closely than your playing her. But if you're enjoying the game then go head. I like to flirt and I like womens attention, but I hate to waste too much of my time.
I'm just telling how I like to go about things. Hesitant chicks usually become a waste of time in my experience; because there are so many things I could be doing in life beside thinking about a chick who ain't on nothing.
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