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[β]SpookyKG 41 points42 points43 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Get her Twitter and MySpace
[β]Comfortable_Tension2 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
next, linkedin and email
[β]nick_oreo 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Should've asked who's place she wanted to go to, it works more often than trying to get something going over text. At least for me. Also you save time if shes the type to ghost someone.
[β]lildudefromXdastreet 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This. In my experience thereβs like a 90% chance a drunk girl is gonna have no idea who tf u even are the next day
[β][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hold up. If (s)he is that drunk then absolutely DO NOT go home with her/him
[β][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If that's the case I'm still a virgin
[β]HanEyeAm 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She can say no then you fall back on getting her number. If she is offended by the ask, unless she completely shuts down, then you can still play the scenario for a number and getting on her good side.
[β][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take a dickpix, print it out and Mail her with your signature at the bottom. "To my best fan "her name", love 4 ever "your name". Wink smiley.
[β]tehrealdirtydan 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Snap tends to be given easier than personal phone number.
I say text them whenever you want to. Don't follow some preset routine. Do what you want
[β]nikovagu 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I don't use snap.
As for IG, I would respond to some story (an actual message, not an emoji). If there's none right now, or if the stories don't seem like conversation starters, I would just DM her, chat for a bit, make a couple jokes and see if she's interested in going out.
For example:
"Hey!! Did you finally make it to your brunch??" (Assuming you talked about this)
"not really lol, the hangover was real!!"
"yeah, cocktails are the worst! I can barely eat and it's 4pm already. we should aim for just beers next time haha"
"lol definitely" (here's where you see if she's interested, chat for another bit and then fire away an invitation in some days)
You can keep messaging each other for a couple days if the conversation is going well. Maybe ask her out mid-week for the weekend.
I would advise against asking her out straight up as a first message. Kinda conveys you are anxious about it, or have nothing else to do; you would be giving the situation too much value. Some people could do this and it might work for them, not my style though.
[β]AndrewIsOnline 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That first example is going to be on read receipt lol
[β]nikovagu 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If she's not interested, yeah. That's a sign to move on.
[β]AndrewIsOnline 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
But itβs inherently a dumb question.
Donβt ask a question that had a one word answer.
Whatβs she supposed to say, βyes, please send dick pick
[β]nikovagu 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nah, you don't need to ask deep mind-blowing questions to keep the conversation going. If she's into you she will tell you more stuff.
[β]AndrewIsOnline 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol
[β]Armybert 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Text her, βIβm going for some boba, wanna join?β
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[β]HazratAlikhann 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you should Give me her IG and snap I'd, this should be your next step.π
[β]ryanmc1989 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you met at the club?.. she might have already forgotten about you. Better to try to set something up sooner rather than later
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