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[–]KingoftheNorth412 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
If you’re getting their number I won’t change how you get it. You’re getting results.
Maybe look at what you’re texting them after you get the number.
[–]DanielJiha 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I just really want a date, the number isn't helping me. On a date I have the time to work my way.
[–]KingoftheNorth412 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Post your last convo with one of this girls.
[–]DanielJiha 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
ME " Hey, saw you squatting there, I'm quite impressed, you got better form than almost everybody i see here. I'm Daniel,( and I flash a Smile). What's your name : ( Esmeralda ). Really nice to meet you. Never seen you here, you come here often?
HER : I've been here for 4 months. You usually come at this time ?
ME : depends on work and football, but I come daily yeah.
Slight 1 second pause
Are you free this evening? Would love to get to know you better
HER : I'm busy this evening, it'll have to be some other evening.
ME : Ah, I see. You mind giving me your number and we'll keep in touch?
Number and see you later.
[–]KingoftheNorth412 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’ve found it best to approach women when they are done with their workout, not while they are doing them.
I would focus on being a little more creative with what you’re saying. Most of this sounds generic (i.e. “come here often?”) and almost like you’re asking her for permission to talk (“mind giving me your number?”).
90% of the battle is getting the courage to talk to attractive women. You’re doing that. Just keep sharpening your blade.
[–]DanielJiha 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Actually, I did say " give me your number and well talk ", just translated it from Spanish in what I would have said in English, so point made anyways. I can't wait for her to finish either, but, she was between sets talking to her friend so I don't think it wasn't a bad time either.
Currently reading a lot about charisma and body language, hope I can get that creativity up a little bit as you said, thanks
[–]DanielJiha 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've asked out id say 11 girls in the past 2 years here in Madrid, have gotten 3 dates, and 7 total numbers
[–]LogosKing 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe its that you want the date?
[–]JacobMoogberg69 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A number is not a result. A number is simply a means to communicate with a woman to arrange to see her again. Stop treating numbers like they mean anything.
[–]KingoftheNorth412 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s a piece of the process and it is working for OP. My advice wasn’t to change his current approach on how he gets it but what he does after he gets it. Do you have any advice to give or are you just looking to make random/irrelevant comments?
[–]Aiud2000 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
forget about texting, a girl will rarely meet with someone who she just met and asked her out thru texting, either call her or send her a video message or voicechat, because women work weird so they need to feel u and if ure a threat or something, so just texting with a girl is like 10% chance she would do anything with u irl
[–]Booster93 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girls will give you there number just so you leave them alone.
[–]putcoolusernamehere 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Imo, 2-3 minutes is more than enough time. I find that longer convos and even instadates don't tend to decrease flake rate. If anything, I find these quick conversations to be better. It leaves an aura of mystery about you.
[+]JacobMoogberg69 -12 points-11 points-10 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why do you need approval from strangers on the net (mentioning how fit or good lookin you are?)
[–]DanielJiha 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't need approval from strangers on the net. These are important details, how you look IS an important factor when it comes to dating, and this is what this subreddit is about.
[+]JacobMoogberg69 -11 points-10 points-9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure bud
[–]AelfredRex 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, build rapport, because you're still a complete stranger to them.
[–]Expensive_Law_1193 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Best is to get the number once you are on a high note or if you find a good reason that you like the girl. The girl know why you want to meet up again, instead it seeing like you only want to get in her pants.
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