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Manners2210 · 2021-10-08T14:35:43+00:00

So she answered 20 hours later once. Then you did copycat now you’re both playing this weird game of waiting 20 hours to respond. I’d personally break the cycle and message sooner, if she’s playing games, she can do that alone as I don’t have time for petty shit. See how the date goes and take it from there

TheHalfMonty · 2021-10-08T14:43:04+00:00

You're not her entire life, she has things to do. She's interested but she's not obsessed. You shouldn't be so reactive that you feel like you need to punish her for making you wait by making her wait. Just be above it. Earn her attention.

No-Historian-6391 · 2021-10-08T15:43:31+00:00

20 hours LOL. Goofy mother fuckers.

Who cares, you’ll see her tomorrow.

Oirman · 2021-10-08T14:37:39+00:00

It probably means she’s busy, I wouldn’t read into it too much...

If she wants to meet you then there’s no problem as I can see.

The other extreme is a girl who’s messaging all the time and that can be annoying and shows a woman who is potentially needy/clingy.

I’d just go with the flow and don’t expect too much from her before the first date.

If things go well, then after a few dates maybe she messages every day, but that’s not necessarily a desirable outcome (depending on what you want from this connection)...

Radio_Unique · 2021-10-08T16:45:35+00:00

When the girl tell me the time and location, that’s it The next text is the day of date to confirm

tredollasign · 2021-10-08T23:15:43+00:00

You should barely be texting her anyways. Stay on your purpose and talk when you meet IRL

You're obsessing over her like she's your life, and she will immediately sense this needy energy from you

MO_drps_knwldg · 2021-10-08T15:31:34+00:00

Just assume that things are still on, but be she might cancel/flake. Sporadic/infrequent contact is usually an indicator of low interest

garrettcw18 · 2021-10-08T16:16:19+00:00

I’ve said this multiple times on the sub, ‘the Medium is the message’ if someone wants to talk to you, they’ll find a way to do so. Girls break rules for the guys they like, and do the opposite for lower priority guys.

2021-10-08T18:11:15+00:00

That she has a whole life that she’s out living and that’s actually a better sign than someone who is always available to respond immediately. It’s not mixed signals. It’s a pretty clear signal. Don’t be pushy about texting or frequency of texting, you’ll drive her away with your neediness

gangweedsavedme · 2021-10-08T16:49:14+00:00

You’re obsessing

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