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[–]External_Lifeguard49 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
It depends on the individual. As a fellow black guy I have no problem attracting women, but some black guys do.
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Are you tall?
[–]External_Lifeguard49 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, but doesn’t mean anything because a few of my friends are black and are around 5’6 but still manage to get laid, because they have a tight mouthpiece.
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
How tall are you?
[–]External_Lifeguard49 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
5’11
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nice
[–]SomethingS0m3thing 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you know how to attract women, no matter what colour your skin is, you will attract women.
[–]MrBossmane 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It depends my guy. Sometimes it’s easier, sometimes it’s harder , and sometimes it’s just a matter of how much you can attract a girl in general. Results vary region to region.
I’m a 5’4 black dude that attracted a fair share of women.
[–]OrzhovPalatine 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Is dating as a black guy easier?
Easier and harder depending on where you are, what women you're trying to get.
For example as a black guy there is a sterotype that you're all tall, big dick energy expert lovers.
This has its benefits as some girls assume you're very experienced and a good lover. Can get you in really quick.
But it also has the downside of girls assuming you wont stick around. Also if you dont fit the stereotypical black male archetype you will have some issues. The bar for black men is stupidly high.
There was a brother that I'd night game with and he looked part of Tyrone and girls would let him slide in early but the moment they started talking he'd slip up and you could see the girl's dissapointment.
For me as an Asian the bar was already so low, I could be goofy and the girls would deal with it cause of the novelty of an Asian approaching them.
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Who is taller him or you?
[–]OrzhovPalatine 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Nope, I'm 5'8, my boy was 6'1. Also alot better looking than me.
Only problem is while he looked the part, he didnt have the word game. Girls fall in love through their ears not their eyes like us.
Dont worry so much about height, you cant fix that shit. If you're a short guy you better be a funny charming short guy. It's your word game that gets you across the finish line anyways.
I learned most of my game from brothers cause they had to rely mostly on their word game. I used to peacock all the time with expensive shit and I'd see brothers who just wore a dirty tank and jeans and they'd get alot more girls than me just cause they had a better word game than me.
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What asian are you? South, East, SouthEast?
[–]OrzhovPalatine 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
East
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You sleep with mostly white girls or others?
[–]OrzhovPalatine 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've slept with mostly latina/black. I'm in a white girl phase currently though cause I didnt have enough self belief in myself to get them awhile back.
[–]Leviathansplunge 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I only intend to say positive things on the subject but I feel there is no way to talk about this subject without triggering a cancel culture suspension on my account, but here it goes...in my region black is the new rich white guy, every type of woman chases African american men now, it's not even a contest. The only white guys pulling it off are the posers that try to act black.
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Damn. Which region are you in?
[–]Leviathansplunge -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
We call it the hartford/springfield market since the whole area is just one big extension of cities and their suburbs, the "northern leg" of the new York "supercity"
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Are you black or white?
[–]Leviathansplunge 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
neither, I figure that allows me to give an objective opinion. 🇵🇷
Hispanic?
[–]SomethingS0m3thing 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What region?
[–]truthbomb999 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Depends on who you are dating and what part of the country you are in and YOU as a whole.
Given you are on Reddit and writing in complete sentences, you are probably educated, which means black women are going to fucking hate you, so skip them entirely.
Like is it easier for a black guy to get laid and get matches on dating apps and to pull in clubs
This is just way too generic of a question, but rarely are women coming on to me because I'm black, and I'm a tall, fit black guy. In other countries maybe. It depends on the club, but in the EDM space I do well, but probably not at a country western bar.
Dating apps are just stupid. They don't work for anyone who doesn't have visible abs, black or not.
Considering black women usually prefer black guys and some white women prefer black guys over white.
Black women like the pookie and ray rays on the block. They hate educated square/lames. The rest of the world can appreciate educated black guys, so choose wisely here. Black women prefer black men because nobody else wants them.
The base rules of attraction don't change.
What about white women?
[–]BrummieAMN19 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
It really depends on your location for the average black guy. I personally haven’t struggled with women of all races even though I go to university in a city where we make up about 2% of the population. Generally the more multiracial the area, the better prospects you have if you are in a predominantly white area it’s not impossible but if you’re just an average Joe then you’ll often lose out to an average white guy. However exceptions do apply for example in Poland we do very very well on OLD believe it or not and certain stereotypes we have in regards to women can be used as an advantage.
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
You’ve been to Poland before?
[–]BrummieAMN19 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Yeah me and my mate( mixed race) went to Warsaw for 5 weeks in the summer and it’s basically the closest equivalent to how Thailand is for white guys. I got about 47-50 matches a day over there where I get around 20-23 matches a day on Tinder where I live in the UK and out of those matches from week 2 I shagged two girls per week by setting up loads of dates.
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
How tall are you? Are you attractive?
[–]BrummieAMN19 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
5”9 but I wear shoes that boost up my height to 5”10 and I say I’m the latter on hinge and bumble.
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Isnt the average height in Poland pretty tall? How tall are the men and women there?
[–]BrummieAMN19 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah you’re right the men and women from the areas we went to were taller than average. However my dates did range from 5”2-5”7, with solid photos, a specific bio and running text game it was pretty easy to go on dates. They didn’t mention my height so I never found it an issue personally. Plus theres barely any flaking compared to British girls.
In terms of attractiveness my physique compared to others my age is 8/10 I am jacked. Face wise I’d say I’m a 6.5/10 although before OLD and knowing PUA fully I was a natural at secondary school and at sixth form when I was skinny.
[–]Ashtothelight 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm half black. My dating pool tends to be black women and non black poc. I don't mind too much I guess. I have gotten a bit of fetishizing from white women, but I tend to just avoid it.
[–]rivetcitymayor 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s harder for blacks guys and the stereotypes you gotta live to don’t help
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