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[–]david10277 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
A title is irrelevant.
The action of 2 people hanging out and having a good time is what's matters
You dont need to tell her what it is..
She accepted, does she need to tell you shes interested ? No she does not ..
Becuase her actions speak more than her words.
[–]RedEyeBlackEye1 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This. Plus, flirt, kino, and escalate(if possible...AFTER building some chemistry).
[–]caIImebigpoppa 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, read the room, sometimes the only escalation needed is confirming chemistry to the other person
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[–]david10277 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hug her and then kiss her on her cheek '
That's how you progress the tension
Next time when your alone you kiss on her lips
[–]ThePhunkyPhantom13 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Eh... I have seen friends take people on dates where the other person did not know it was a date multiple times. Those were very awkward.
I might bring up the word date in a small fun casual way when confirming times or showing up. Not the main topic of the message but on the side.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It might already be implied. How did you ask her?
[–]CalvinHobb3s 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she wanted to go out on a boat. Ya' know. Because of the implication.
[–]david10277 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Again when people brand a hang out as a date its gets cloudy , dont make a girl feel like shes getting relationship by labeling it as a date.
Just keep it fun..let it work it self out. It's like trying to tell me what the picture is before the painter is done
That's my point
[–]pokemonpokemonmario[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Day before or day off just say you're looking forward to our date.
[–]p00psicle151590 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"Great. It's a date ;)"
[–]JacobMoogberg69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So why didn't you tell her "let's go out on a date".
[–]HappinesSource 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would approach it as what it is, hanging out to know her better and have a nice time. No need to label it as a "potentially sexual encounter". If you feel like you wanna have sex once into the date simply escalate things as a man, not as a lawyer that conveys explicitly the conditions of the meetup.
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