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[β]teqaxe 46 points47 points48 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Maybe a different phrasing?
[β]gigolobob 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, that was exactly what he meant π
[β]12-bald-turkeys 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He said what he said.
[β]dumandanonymous 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I mean we all know the method but I think what heβs really asking is that if he were to expose himself once, where would be the best place to do it so that a lot of women will see.
[β][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
i wish women would expose themselves to me. that's the world i want to live in
[β]dumandanonymous 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Every woman?
[β][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
U right
i see nothing wrong. op just go out and expose yourself to every fucking girl you see!
Booooom Phrasing
[β][deleted] 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Leaving the house to do anything will increase the number of women you come into contact with. If you build a routine around visiting a place you will get to know the people there. Whether that's a gym, a restaurant, a bar, etc.
I always build a connection with the bartenders in bars. It gives you someone to talk to so you're not pottering around alone. It gives you social proofing and if you find the right person they might even help you in winning over a girl
[β][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
what's second behind bars tho? i don't drink, don't really wanna go
[β][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well you don't have to drink alcohol, you can get non-alcoholic drinks
But Restaurant, Gym, the local swimming pool, anywhere where there are people will work
[β]Familiarity_ 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Bars, gym, grocery store, parks, coffee shops, bookstores, local events, meetups.
Go outside and be as social as you possibly can and give yourself more opportunities to meet people. Start by saying hi to people and asking how their day is going and you'll be surprised how many of them open up to you.
[β][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'll add to this that pretty much any hobby that doesn't involve lots of equipment can be done in public just as easily as from home. Like literally just going to a bookstore/coffee store to read or even watch Netflix will expose you to so many more women on your daily routine than doing the same from home will.
that's a good list. god i run out of things to say... what do you say after how's your day going??
[β]DanielSnipeCelly 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There is a place down the street that is a bar/coffee shop/bookstore combined into one that is perfect for meeting people. I try to head over there 1-2 times a week. I've yet to get any dates from hanging out there, but I've had a few pleasant conversations.
[β][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A nice robe will do it.
kilt?
[β]OperationSurvive 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Breakaway jacket
[β]lerdmermer 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also remove all other apparel.
[β]ImperatorMorris 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Find a crowd. Drop pants. Rinse and repeat π
[β][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Join a sports club like running club. Go yoga and find a hobby that makes you money, solo travel, go to library and read, coffee shops and read
[β]TheSunshineMan 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As soon as your done with work, go out into the real world and talk to all the girls you see in real life.
Problem solved.
A trench coat
[β]letmereaddamnit 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do more cardio and have a get away car.
in theory you don't even have to leave the car.
[β]sophist16 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Itβs called ClassPass.
[β][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Step 1: better wording please
Step 2: assuming you're not a pedophile/flasher and just want advice on how to naturally encounter more women on the course of your day to cold approach: study for career development at libraries or coffee shops, get groceries more frequently, go do your hobbies that you can in public (reading, Netflix, etc can all be done at a park or bookstore). Just always keep your eye out everywhere you go and try to be out the house more often.
Also, the op way is to just live near a college campus and have a plausible reason to be on campus (maybe you've got a friend there, you're an alumni and still use the gym/library, you're just walking through, etc), or to shop for groceries and use coffee shops that are adjacent to that campus. College campus are daygame heaven and they really don't start getting weird to be at until your over 30.
as a 30yo that hangs out around college campuses: dang it
[β]SnooMachines1406 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
college campuses, malls during the weekends, parks or downtown. Anywhere with a large volume of women so you can use the numbers game.
[β]tellythesloot 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just pull it out dude!
Jk but no seriously Just go anywhere literally where people Just go. No purpose needed Just walk outside your door into the grocery store or the mall or the park and just approach every girl you see with a cheesy line. Fail enough times at this until you get over your fear of approaching women and continue to do so until you come up with some fluid seductive words music to these bitches ears and that's how a regular guy becomes a player because it takes practice Your problem isn't that you aren't anywhere women are, it's that you're afraid to be there. Muster up the courage it starts with you, practice, then the world becomes your oyster and you realize it's not all ite cracked up to be
The cheat code is to join a club/ extracurricular activity. Those things are literally made for you to fuck.
You show up at the same dance club/ workout as a girl everyday and if you canβt start talking and pull one then you donβt deserve any
I kinda have a similar issue but iβm literally jjst tryna get out of my comfort zone. Iβm gonna start going to the gym more, oh! And also iβm gonna start going out nightly more go open mic nights at bars
[β]Fresh_Substance8734 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Whoaβ¦.. whip out your piece and just show em bro.
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