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awkwardrunner11 · 2021-09-20T00:48:57+00:00

I wouldn’t say “I know you have a class period free” I can come off as creepy to some. Instead just say “im free right now and was wondering if you’d have lunch with me”

2021-09-20T00:51:41+00:00

Yeah that should be fine, have a little bit of a conversation with her first and then deliver your line as a statement "hey (name) I'm going to get some lunch, you should come with".

Whether or not she accepts your invitation you should continue to approach and talk to women around your campus to avoid developing oneitis (obsessing over one girl). Approaching and talking to women in university is really easy you can just say something like "hey can I sit here" and then ask her what classes she's taking, major etc.

18Mandrake_R00T5 · 2021-09-20T00:48:18+00:00

Don't say, "I know when you're free so you BETTER go out with me" that may freak her out. Just hint you're not trying to use her and treat her well

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2021-09-20T04:19:05+00:00

Dont twll her you know her schedule. Just ask her if shes down for lunch.

DanielHoestan · 2021-09-20T00:47:50+00:00

Not bad not bad. Here’s a trick that will definitely help you. Instead of asking her to get lunch. Say this; Hey name, I know that you are free after class, lets get lunch together (smile)

By just saying it instead of asking it your are taking away her option of saying no.

This technique is used alot in sales. Here are two other options.

Instead of asking “do you wanna go on a date?” You just say, be ready at 8pm, and Im gonna take you to the most epic date that you’ve had all your life.

2021-09-20T04:16:30+00:00

This will be somewhat controversial on here, but imo going for this instant date, especially as a beginner, is a bad idea. It can make her feel trapped and it can also take away the mystery/intrigue about you. It's better in general to ask her to meet up some other time.

dry-foo · 2021-09-20T11:54:34+00:00

"Is this a good way to approach this woman"

Yes, just any approach will take you closer to your goals. If you don't get her number or can't take her to date / to your bedroom you will still be one experience richer.

However, I'd just ask her number and ask if she's free on Friday for some drinks. Good luck.

2021-09-21T08:47:26+00:00

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2021-09-21T17:21:04+00:00

Just say hey, talk a bit then pause and say "hey, I'm about to grab food at (random location) your should come"

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