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OneThousandYardStare · 2021-09-12T17:13:15+00:00

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Lontasm · 2021-09-12T16:59:26+00:00

Maybe she..... doesn't know her schedule yet.

Dunno why, but got a hunch she might not know her schedule yet.

Weird, right?

MrCabdyfloss · 2021-09-12T15:33:50+00:00

She might actually not know or wants some time

Wise_Bit_86 · 2021-09-12T17:43:43+00:00

Best thing is to keep yourself occupied with other things. Date other people and let her be the one who reaches out to make plans. If she wants to see you more, she will reach out.

More than likely you did nothing wrong. No way to know what all she has going on in her life.

FrogOfWar93 · 2021-09-12T18:20:08+00:00

She probably has other options, and she prefers those options to you.

It might not be anything in your control, and you may have done anything wrong, so go easy on yourself.

Women are flakey, impulsive, emotional creatures.

I expect the main issue here, is that you didn't create a strong enough emotional hook, or emotional investment... so it was easy for her to flake.

thatwabba · 2021-09-12T18:26:54+00:00

I know exactly what you did wrong: asking yourself what you did wrong. Move on and don’t get affected by this or her.

lunaokazul · 2021-09-12T18:03:36+00:00

I think you follow you’re gut on this one. You’re probably right. She could easily have said “absolutely want to see you again, I just don’t have my schedule in front of me atm”. But if not, she is probably not sure. Could be for any reason, that has nothing to do with you. You’ve hooked up multiple times, so she clearly likes you. I would forget about any kind of result from this, you already had a very good result. Just remove all expectation. Let her take the initiative to see you again, and if she doesn’t, then so be it.

Sevenalligator7 · 2021-09-12T20:26:25+00:00

Been here, she's just pulling back trying to get you invested or maybe she's really busy (nah) either way don't hit her up until she hit you up first.

bzvm · 2021-09-12T20:35:19+00:00

Dude just chill. If she doesn’t tell you when she’s free within a few days, then hit her up once and forget about it.

lunaokazul · 2021-09-12T21:18:32+00:00

u need to get more side chicks and u wont care

GuyWhoNeedsHelp12 · 2021-09-12T22:02:09+00:00

When this would happen to me, at first I’d think it was no big deal and there was probably some excuse and I was worrying for no reason and if I interpret what she said literally then it’s not a bad thing. But in the end my gut was always right, and a drastic change in excitement is pretty noticeable. Not a guarantee of course.

At this point it’s out of your control. You did the right thing in saying to do it some other time. If she wants to reschedule, she’ll let you know. Otherwise you don’t want to keep asking because would you want to have the sort of relationship where you have to initiate every little thing or else she loses interest? I would want to be with a girl who desires me too and isn’t afraid of showing it.

kjackrel · 2021-09-12T23:40:20+00:00

This girl isn't going anywhere lmao just be patient

younngtrouble · 2021-09-13T14:44:39+00:00

Don’t know if this was said yet, but pretty much what you did wrong was trying to see this girl too often.

Women always claim they want to see you a lot, and spend more time with you, but the more you do this the more they tend to pull back. It’s an availability/value thing.

To a woman, the MORE she is able to see a man, the LESS he probably has his own stuff going on, or other women he’s juggling. This may not be the case in reality, but it’s how women gauge your worth (via your behavior, and to most women, high value men mainly act like they don’t have much time for them).

Just the way it is… I would advise to never see a woman every week, and NEVER 3 weeks in a row. Also never see a woman more than once a week. Stay on your purpose/work.

Hope this helps.

ProfessorZoom80 · 2021-09-14T14:34:33+00:00

She has a lot of guys And u meet her at a party, what do you expect

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