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[–]Cobbler_Calm 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women get more attached after vaginal intercourse, in my experience.
[–]Agreable_Actuator84 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I think it mostly varies from person to person but I would think PIV more intimate to more women based on dating a number of women who stair stepped it that way (kissing-fondling outside clothes- giving me oral -piv sex over 3-4 dates.) oddly enough, in most cases of me giving oral to a woman, it was after we were already having piv sex.
Report back what you find please.
Be aware that some girls count giving oral but no piv as not having sex with that partner but any other man you date would count that as you having sex. I am not taking a position on this just repeating what I notice from discussions with partners and friends.
[–]shipsAreWeird123 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Is that true though? You receive a blowjob and brag to your friends that you got laid?
[–]Agreable_Actuator84 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
What?
[–]shipsAreWeird123 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
you said any other man would consider that sex...
[–]Agreable_Actuator84 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes. Some men consider that oral sex is sex and some don’t (famously Bill Clinton - I didn’t have sex with that woman and the whole ‘eating ain’t cheatin’) Some women consider oral sex to be sex, some don’t. I believe that more men consider oral sex to be sex than women.
What about you? Do you consider giving a blow job to a guy as having had sex with him?
if asked by a guy who might be a potential long term partner whose opinion matter to you, would you include those blowjobs only relationships in you sexual history? Would it count for your body count?
[–]shipsAreWeird123 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I consider it a sexual act but not sex.
Tbh if a potential long term partner was demanding any sort of information about my previous partners beyond maybe "do I know any of them" I wouldn't entertain it.
I don't count people who I've just blown as part of my body count, but I also don't keep a list of my body count to begin with.
[–]PersianIncision 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Neither me nor any of my friends (male) consider oral sex as sex when we say we got laid. We just say we got head
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well considering the fact that women are literally the reciprocal of sex, having to lay on her back and spread her legs, it’s physical and emotional vulnerability defined and demands a certain level of trust (bonding) for her to even be comfortable doing that.... so it’s entirely fair to say that PIV >>>> oral by mikes when it comes to emotional connection.
[–]TheSunshineMan 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nobody can answer you because every girl is different.
[–]rafr256 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well I think PIV is more intimate. But your not gonna orgasm from PIV alone. He has to know what he’s doing with his tongue to get you to cum.
But I think that moment of first orgasm and the kiss that follows is what builds the strongest emotional connection
[–]HistoricalReception7 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Googling energy exchange during sex. I think most people feel that emotional connection after PIV.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Piv
[–]chriipping 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For me, piv is a lot more intimate. My first time I did piv then we traded oral. I honestly prefer piv overall because it feels better and I feel more of a connection. Oral for me is more like just having fun.
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