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[–]Kenic_In_MD 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I've been there. I'll say this, anything is possible. HOWEVER:
Some caveats
She broke up with you via text....Super disrespectful, she couldn't be assed to tell you to your face or at least call you.
Remember the season; we're coming up on the end of summer, winter is right around the corner and there is potentially (hopefully not) another covid lockdown coming up. 🎶"It's so coldddd in the D" 🎶 no one wants to be alone during lockdown or winter.
Do you seriously believe she didn't try other options before hitting you back up???
She's your "Ex" for a reason
If you two talk it out or work something out or whatever make DAMN SURE that she is rooting for your team. You get what i'm saying OP?
[–]LetsTaKoAboutIt 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm curious about why you think the breaking up via text is being super disrespectful. Couldn't she just have been one of those people that aren't comfortable with confrontation or etc.?
[–]Kenic_In_MD 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Breaking up with someone is a pretty serious occasion as such I personally find it very disrespectful to do it via text. Every girl i've broken up with i've done it face to face. It wasn't easy but if you are going to break someone's heart, have the courage to do it to their face.
Of course people are different, but this is a huge disrespect item for me.
[–]TheSunshineMan 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She's most likely been riding the cock carousel the past year.. and is in between guys and the last guy didn't give her the attention she wants, misses the attention you gave her and is talking to you out of neediness..
Maybe she wants you back, maybe she's just using you for attention to until she finds another guy.
It rarely works out the second time around.
She already dumped you once.. why are you even considered this?
[–]TheycallhimRyan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t know. Maybe she’s testing the waters.
[–]TheycallhimRyan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She’s 42 btw.
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Age doesn't make any difference on this.
[–]KingDavid30 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ahhh the el classico "I've missed you" line. Master manipulation dude. It's hard to look at it from a non bias angle when you are deep in the feels. If she respected you she wouldn't have broke up via text.
She is probably back because option a, b, c probably didn't work out. I suggest just casually having sex with her and keep it straight FWB. No need to rush into a relationship until later on when you learn more about her cause you know very little at the moment.
[–]Ironic_Resting_Face 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Live and let live. Go for it. Perhaps she broke up in text because she didn’t really want to in the first place.
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