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[–]MasterTeacher123 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Most men don’t have the balls to approach women outside of clear socially accepted environments like clubs/bars and that’s usually after they’ve had a few drinks in them.
If you become just MEDIOCRE at day game you separate yourself from 90% of your peers.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link
Well I don’t really care what other people do or not. And this is not about guys who dare or not this is about women and why they are afraid or uncomfortable to meet guys during day but ok to meet up random guy from a dating app or at the bar.
Do you really think that women care about if you have balls to approach them or not or even think about it? They might it’s fun at the beginning.
Like today girls she was very open and friendly and forward and we talk for 5 minutes and then I took her number then I text her that it’s was nice to meet her. She replied me like this:
“Hi yeah it was nice. But just to let you know that I’m not interested in anything but it was flattering that you come and approach me” then she blocked me.
They still live in their bubble of that everyone want them no matter what.
[–]MasterTeacher123 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Ok so move on to the next chick lol. You’re gonna stop hollering at girls cause one dubbed you after giving you the number?
You should be talking to multiple girls anyway
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
It’s not about I’ve issue to move on I just want to make it clear that girls don’t care if you dare to approach them no matter when and where and how.
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[–]loofyd 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
which country , if you don't mind telling
[–]SamuraiRetainer 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doesnt matter bro.
[–]TheSunshineMan -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women like confident alpha males - cold approaching a women on the street in broad daylight is just about as confident alpha as you can get.
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[–]loofyd 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
last two sentences really make sense and hit the ball out of the park !
[–]loofyd 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
putting girls on a pedestal , subconsciously this time !
this one girl you met might just be an ass - not every girl is going to be a ladylike woman
just like not every guy is going to be a sane , sensible man
there are assholes and bitches in the world too
shit happens .. move on to the next girls , there are good men and women in the world as well
go find them !
[–]SamuraiRetainer 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pick up is number game bro. A girl that is a 6 might think shes a 9 when a girl whos a 9 might think shes a 7. Day game supposed to help you ward off social media attention whore who got all attention from low value simp and think shes a 10, and pick up the rare underrated girls.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Approach 30-50 women a week bro it’s a numbers game and a skill. If you start getting stale take a break. Pro growth mindset once you develop this skill you’ll have it for the rest of your life quit being a ho and man up good luck
[–]Hayden_Beroc 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
sounds like you are just a nice guy on the street who is looking for the perfect wife, tbh daygame is hard but if you don't wana do it then don't nobody is forcing you. Got back to your bumble app and date girl you dont really find attractive. lol
but keep in mind that daygame will make you get the 9 and 10, word of advice if you want to keep doing daygame, it about getting a social skill that most men lack. With this skill in hand you will able to talk to any girl and she will feel like you are seducing her without even telling her. Daygame will make you ditch your anxiety when talking to girl for the first time and will extract you from your logical mind and make you more in tune with your masculine instinct.
Whenever you approach a girl and she is giving you shit try see the fun out of it and if you watch video of guy that teach daygame you will often see that girl are giving then massive shit when they approach.
Keep in mind she don't know you of course she will give you shit but you have to do the work, make her attracted to you and act like an Ahole within you mate.
Dayagme is simple open with
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t pick them up, let them pick you up. The twist - they don’t do it overtly. Learn the signals - the glances, hair flips, etc. Women like to choose you but coyly. They invite you to hit on them. If you’re just trying to pick up everything you see without those signals, you’re potentially wasting a lot of time and effort on women who may just not be available for that.
[–]argumentativepigeon 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
CBT those thoughts broski.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here’s a fact… an insecure male will be very vocal of his fears … he will wonder in amazement at why women will not meet his standard…. Here’s a news flash… stop looking at women as a piece of fucking meat… they are not… there far more intelligent than males … use more of their brains… and have suffered from the moment a little boy who wasn’t taught to respect women… the little girl list her virginity…. Was talked about by other kids and over a period of time…. Have learned that boys act out as described here…. Try this…. Say hello… how’s your day going.. hope you’ve had a great day…. Just thought I would try to initiate a conversation… and if she doesn’t respond…. Tell her it’s ok and say take care and I hope you have a better day today than you did today…. And let it be…. If she responds…. Great…. If she don’t … great..,, if your a man… your actions will speak louder than your words… besides if you’ve got your own home your own car your on land… if you’ve got your shit together…. And she don’t respond… it’s her loss,.. always be kind…. You never know what sombody may be going thru… so be nice…..
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[–]Short-Bicycle4657 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The only way to get better at something is to practice it. Ignore this hater OP and have fun and enjoy the journey. You are a student of life, so take a worry-free attitude and have fun.
Even guys who have lots of women in their life get rejected every now and then. Know your worth and don't let it affect you.
This is forum and people come here and discuss things. Just because I started a thread it does not mean I’m insulted or I’m affected. Maybe I wanna look for advice or see how other guys doing since now days everything gets difficult when approaching women.
Just because you live in a negative frame and are a loser doesn’t not mean everyone are like that.
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[–]Dutchcat1077 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
See, this is your true personality. Your energy is ugly and women can sense that. I imagine this is how you react to anyone who dares to challenge you.
[–]Gaydame 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed. Stop harassing, stop giving off creepy vibes. Stop playing.
Get approaching.
[–]Own-Salad1974 -2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude you gotta say where you live
[–]Gaydame 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They feel uncomfortable because you do.
Law of state transference.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe it's how you're approaching them that's scaring them away.
Try
I talk to women in public all the time and they are never freaked out. You are doing something wrong I guarantee it.
[–]Franciscus_Magister 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I thought it was an interesting topic; why cant the moderators censor just the parts they find offensive, and leave the rest?
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