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[–]Scohr 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I always feel like it’s the responsibility of the person in the relationship not to cheat. You’re not forcing her to do anything she doesn’t want to do.
[–]wowzacowza 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very true. I really didn't force shit, either. She pretty much just hopped on board with me and that was that. Thanks for your input.
[–]WIA20XX 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When I first started, I said no. I was a square then. It was morally wrong. Plus I'm not interested in possible fights.
Later as I realized how amoral chicks really are, I said yes. Somebody needs to fuck these chicks. Girlfriends, wives, mothers. Secret society in full effect.
Now, that type of female behavior disgusts me. She's a parasite. Not worth banging.
[–]wowzacowza 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To be honest, avoiding conflicts is one of the main reasons I usually don't do things like this. I tend to go to the same bars, hang out with similar groups of people, etc. Kind of a "don't shit where you eat" mindset.
I remember back when I was like 17 or so I worked in a big restaurant and there was this one hostess who was fine af. Cute face, great body. Her boyfriend was in the navy and deployed to Afghanistan (this was 7-8 years ago) and she just fucked every dude who gave her the time of day. I know for a fact she did at least 3 dozen guys. Absolutely ruthless.
[–]ILovemigos1234 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I might get downvoted for this but I’m gonna tell you what I do, and I’ve been on that side of the situation much too plenty. If a girl is into you like that and touching you like that, she likes you. Do You like her? If yes then as a guy, you do your thing. I do feel bad for the boyfriend but as you & I stated, we’ve been on that side and it doesn’t feel good. It’s survival of the fittest out here, only the strong survive. If you like her and she’s into you and it’s at a good place at a good time, then it’s game on. That’s my take
[–]TheXXL 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's pretty common for guys to down vote posts that state these simple facts. This is probably due to them being niceguys and therefore believing women are innocent angels and they cannot make their own decisions.
But as you said, she's the one cheating not the guy. Very much spot on what you wrote.
[–]wowzacowza 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I hope you don't get downvoted. That's what I keep bouncing back and forth between. Like, if it wasn't me she was on, it probably would've been another guy. Sometimes that's just how it is. We had a good time, the sex was good, all in all I really can't complain. I mean, I kinda feel for her boyfriend, but also to some extent I don't. He's probably banging other broads if I know anything about where I graduated from.
So I don't know. I don't feel great about it, but I also don't feel terrible about it.
[–]ILovemigos1234 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Don’t feel bad. It literally happens. Just imagine, its gonna be impossible to find the boyfriend and tell him his girlfriend is a hoe, and even if you do manage to do that she would have cheated. By that time a relationship would have ended and she definitely wasn’t gonna be coming back to you. So take advantage of the situation. It might not be right, but it’s also not right when you call your girlfriend on your 2 year anniversary and some guy picks up telling you she’s found someone else (personal experience). So yeah, pick your poison
[–]wowzacowza 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well the downvote fairies are already out.
Yeah shit happens. I don't know that it justifies being the other guy, but I also don't know that it's really so awful to just happen to be the guy she cheats with. Like I said, I don't really know how to feel about it. Obviously you went through some pretty awful shit. Mine was pretty tame. I was like 18 or 19 and the girl I had been dating for like 5 months I decided to move in with (genius fucking 18 year old logic) was boning some dude in our apartment. I found out from some people she worked with and luckily was able to just bounce because my name wasn't on the lease.
It fucking destroyed me, but now I look back on it and honestly I'm thankful for it. I learned a very hard lesson, that people cheat. Not just in movies, but like someone I actually thought I loved. It's made me a much more careful person, albeit a more jaded and cynical person, but a lot less likely to get burned like that again. Kinda like getting chicken pox when you're a kid and it's not so bad vs getting it as an adult and it killing you sort of thing.
[–]ILovemigos1234 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah man I understand. If you don’t feel right about doing it morally then don’t do it. But if a girl came at me like that then I’m gonna enjoy my night best believe
Honestly I don't really regret it. It was fun, it was an easy pickup, and I had a good time with her. So I guess it is what it is. Maybe it's like cake. Every now and then, not so bad. Every day, you're gonna start to have some issues. Moderation and all that shit.
I will say, probably what did me in was how much focus I've been putting on game recently. It was kinda nice to be reminded of how I used to have encounters... organically. When a girl was just interested in me and I was interested in her. The kind that doesn't come around all the time, where it's no work, you just let loose and do you and she's vibing with it. It felt good, not gonna lie. I could just be stupid drunk me and she was still all over it.
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