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[–]bournit 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
It could be nice having a subreddit not only dedicated to (proper) game, but also where people REALLY interested to game in the field can meet and then meet in real life , like a sort of "wingman finder" + "field reports" subreddit
[–]scarcestraw1598 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Yesssss. I miss the RSD inner circle days
[–]bournit 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I never tried it , but I hear a lot of people talking about it , what it was ? Like local Facebook groups for game ?
[–]Imperator_Pyra 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes, local facebooks groups for game. The one for my city was pretty dead, but at least it was something. Now we don't even have that.
[–]bournit 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man ;)
[–]scarcestraw1598 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They’re not a thing anymore, but it was telegram group chats with people In your city. For example I live in NoVa, closest place would be the DC inner circle. I’ve only been clubbing once, and that was the time I went with someone from an inner circle. You just plan a club for that night and whoever wants to go, goes and we just game together. It was awesome
[–]bournit 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've telegram group for my city (Milan) and it is actually dead, I made a call for daygame , and nobody replied...
Meanwhile looking for wingmen on platforms like joinwingman.com and wingmanmap.com, but still no results...
[–]scarcestraw1598 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Less competition I guess haha
[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Approaching takes the most determination and balls. I can see how the guys who do it don't have much time for guys who are into social circle game (salsa class guys lol), want to start hitting on their college classmates, etc. But that's still game ... the only things that are missing are approach anxiety and opening with "I thought you looked cute."
The non-game related posts here are the ones that are essentially "How do I seduce my crush (without doing anything to improve myself or get better with women in general)"
[–]scarcestraw1598 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh man that’s a classic approach hahahah. “Excuse me, this is super random but I thought you looked cute and I’d beat myself up if I didn’t introduce myself to you” hahaha that’s like my go to
[–]Drshoes8 -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I mean unless you somehow know what everyone who posts here is doing, you can't really say they're not actually going out and trying it. That's like assuming the people in the fitness subs are not actually exercising and just like the concept of exercising.
[–]Imperator_Pyra 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're not wrong, but I'd still hazard a guess that 90% of people here don't really approach much - or at all.
There was a thread here a few months ago, I think, where someone asked people about their experiences with approaching. Almost all responses were something like "I don't approach in person... But I swipe on Tinder every day!" and it was just the most ridiculous thing to see.
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