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Kenic_In_MD · 2019-12-03T01:40:37+00:00

Communicate with them as you would any other girl. If you put them on a pedestal at all it will turn them off.

ultratraditionalist · 2019-12-03T04:06:34+00:00

The absolute best way to demonstrate high value is to not demonstrate it yourself at all -- but to let others demonstrate it for you. This means actually being a popular, fun guy that people enjoy spending time with. It means briefly interrupting a conversation you're having with her because someone wants to say "hi" or shake your hand. It means asking for her number not because you memorized a line, but because you really do have to go do other things but would like to keep in touch.

Social proof is the best way to demonstrate value. And when it comes to pickup, it also happens to be the one thing you can't fake.

BrianDescartes · 2019-12-03T02:22:33+00:00

Question - Why do you feel like you have to show high value to girls that aren’t good enough to see it? If a girl’s matched to you I reckon you’ll both see eachother’s qualities instantly. Don’t waste time on women who seek the wrong things or you’ll feel like you’re going mad!

zyxlla · 2019-12-03T06:15:58+00:00

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rich_god · 2019-12-03T15:19:10+00:00

It seems you're taking things way too personally. Trying to make people talk about your qualities is already showing huge insecurities. If you were confident you have those qualities, you wouldn't care about what people say about you.

You need to grow up, understand that people talk about themselves, not about you, and stop caring so much about what they think. Then become the best person you can be, and show your most authentic self from a place of abundance and not scarcity.

I play sports, dance, play some instruments, have lots of friends(albeit mostly guys), am smart and have been to many places.

None of this makes you a good human being, or an attractive one. Do you think people will go around saying "oh wow did you know that this guy plays sports and even an instrument ? What a dude !". No. What value do you bring in people's life ? Do you make their life exciting ? Do you show them how beautiful and unique they are ? Do you communicate your joy, your excitement, your enthusiasm ? Do you give advices that make them change the way they perceive their life ? Are you caring, do you listen, do you help when it's the most difficult ? Do you protect other people and make them feel safe, heard and supported in your presence ? Are you a leader, do you contribute to the world and create things for others ? Do you love yourself no matter what happens, do you stay calm and relaxed when things are challenging ? Do you have a great vision of what will happen, can you teach your skills to others, can you transform any moment in a unique and exciting one ? Can you identify and express your emotions, show your vulnerabilities and be authentic ? Do you make difficult decisions and go out of your comfort zone ? Do you accept yourself and others unconditionally and don't try to change other people ?

I can assure you that those are qualities that are talked about.

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