[Advice needed] Planning on having a date with this 18 yo girl, need some tips

mashupbabylon · 2014-12-20T23:55:14+00:00

First off a couple drinks is ok but dont get smashed. Too drunk and you could blow the whole thing. Just relax and have confidence. If she already likes you as a person , she probably likes you as a boyfriend candidate. Make eye contact while you talk to her and make sure you let her speak. Girls hate when guys talk about themselves all night. Be honest and not tell a bunch of lies to sound cool.
Above all else dont get caught up on how hot she is. Girls like compliments but dont like to be treated like an object. When you go in for a kiss , make sure to slip her some tongue but dont try to choke her with it. Just a little tongue and touch her face. Girls like to feel special and important. Good luck kid , let us know how it turns out. My wife says good luck as well.

Wolfengristl · 2014-12-21T02:50:39+00:00

Seriously, don't drink too much.

tripple-glaze · 2014-12-21T01:10:57+00:00

A trick to get over how hot she is is too remember that she is human just like you. She is a logical normal human that is probably seeking some kind of affection by going out on a date with you. Making the move....I guess its kind of hard as she is quite and reserved but look for the typical signs that a girl is into you (touching, heavy eye contact, leaning in, laughing at your jokes etc). When you're comfortable that she is giving you all the right signs then go in! Best of luck brother!

PrettyBlueEyes · 2014-12-21T03:15:31+00:00

I would do a nice, casual lunch and nothing more. Leave her wanting more on the first date. If you push too hard she can see that as desperation and totally lose interest.

delabole · 2014-12-21T06:25:06+00:00

So presumably she is a virgin. But if she goes out with you it is because she at least wants to explore what it is like to go on a date, assuming she has never been on one before. So if you make it a good experience, she will want to go on another and eventually you might get further. But given all you said, I wouldn't try for more than a little kiss. Although if that seems good maybe she will be up for more. But most likely she is going to be very self-conscious about anything beyond holding hands. She is a girl. I rest my case. Lol

nofapfuzzy · 2014-12-21T11:59:33+00:00

Jesus fucking Christ ! I don't even know where to start.

1) Your purpose is what? You have not defined your end game. You have no idea what you want. Guess what you will get ?

2) Going on a date is perfectly fine - tell her you want to drink wine! Why the fuck not ??? Really , I see no reason why not to tell her that.

Depending on your mindset and her's - you can tell her you want to fuck her and she might love your direct approach.

3) Depending on alcohol to have balls is extremely unattractive - ASK ANYONE! I fucking dare you!

4) For Christ's sake, go back to [1)] and please define your purpose, your direction, your end game goal. Do it for yourself, not for me. I don't care. You will !

puaCurveBall · 2014-12-21T13:40:10+00:00

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StarwaysCongress · 2014-12-21T08:09:37+00:00

If you're in America, you realize she likely won't be able to even sit at the bar?

Title	[Advice needed] Planning on having a date with this 18 yo girl, need some tips
Author	Backdrift
Upvotes	16
Comments	12
Date	December 20, 2014 11:38 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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