Should I bother pursuing casual sex while getting my shit together?

BansheeThief · 2015-01-19T05:12:09+00:00

Get side tracked but don't use apps like Tinder.

I know you are probably working hard, but I think its important to go out and have fun. With friends or by yourself. And by going out, I mean going to a bar or club and just socializing with other people.

Don't go out pursuing casual sex, go out to enjoy yourself and to take a break from working hard.

Also, great job with being willing to sacrifice other areas of your life in order to get your shit together. If you want success, dedication like this is important. But also find a balance. Work hard, play hard.

bdzevel · 2015-01-19T12:56:40+00:00

Working on your relationships - dating, friends, etc - is the key to any success.

The strength of humanity lies in our ability to work together. Alone, we are useless. As a savvy entrepreneur, you OUGHT to know that connections are everything.

That is to say that I believe your "two" goals are the same. You need to get out there and network, meet people, date, find like minded individuals, etc. NO endeavor can be successful if you are committed to achieving it alone.

You might think there's a distinction to be made between sex and working on your project, but it is artificial. Sex is a side-effect of being socially adept. Successful businesses are a side-effect of being socially adept. Everything - EVERYTHING - you do as a human is relationship-centric.

You can't shut yourself in and expect to succeed. Make connections, and have some fun along the way. Sex is power: the power of making connections.

zomgitsduke · 2015-01-20T15:19:11+00:00

I'm still at home at 26. I don't let it really bother me. I speak pridefully about how I'm saving rent money and working on being debt free before committing to more expenses. The women who are in crazy debt and are struggling financially to be responsible and have fun seem to really be attracted to me because of it.

You just can't let it bother you.

bananabreadmuffins · 2015-01-19T12:21:07+00:00

Just keep in mind, there's a girl out there in your same boat looking to get fucked too.

Throwaway_d · 2015-01-19T15:08:18+00:00

Speaking from experience, Tinder is probably a more time effective way of getting laid than hitting the bars. You probably won't get the best girls on there, but plenty of people are looking for sex on it.

jamesc1071 · 2015-01-19T15:53:18+00:00

It's usually not a good idea to suspend one part of your life in order to pursue other goals.

dgrona · 2015-01-19T12:03:01+00:00

do you like vaginas?

steevrock · 2015-01-19T14:53:58+00:00

Everyone needs a break from. Nothing wrong with getting some pussy on that break. I'd say just stay away from large social media like facebook. That shit will suck you in. Also make sure to keep your eye on the prize. Smash and dash. Women will to reach out constantly when they dont hear from you especially if you leave quietly in the night. Leaving them wondering. Get a throw away phone from 7-11 for dates. Only turn it on when you take a break from work.

Title	Should I bother pursuing casual sex while getting my shit together?
Author	bradamericana
Upvotes	16
Comments	14
Date	January 19, 2015 4:02 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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