Hi Seddit.

I don't regularly write posts so forgive me if this is hard to read.

Short intro before I get to the story. I always had low confidence and self-esteem, which of course is far from ideal when trying to approach the opposite sex. I've acknowledged this and I've found this sub fantastic for advice on improving my confidence around girls. The main point I've taken away from this sub is that eye contact is key in everything you do. I experienced this first hand a few weeks ago.

I managed to seduce quite a good looking girl at a wedding a few weeks ago by just basically maintaining eye contact with her. It was really simple and I can't believe how well it worked. She was the only other girl there my age (21). My cousin was a great wingman in that he seated us next to each other. I was constantly being told this throughout the build up to the wedding, so I presume she had heard about me too.

This happened before we actually sat down for the dinner. I was walking past a table and she was sitting down. I deliberately walked this way so I could catch her eye. Once I did, I held the eye contact for 3/4 seconds. She stared right back at. It's a look and a feeling I'll never forget. In that moment, I knew the game was up. We both did. From then on in, my confidence was sky high. I knew we would end up together later so I wasn't anxious or constantly thinking about what to do. Had a great night with her and managed to get her number and we've been texting since. Its just a shame she lives in another country!

In conclusion, if you're reading this remember eye contact cannot be overstated. Look her in the eyes and don't you dare break it. It takes getting used to. It's scary at first. But eventually it feels like the most natural thing in the world. Never forget this.