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[–]dking168 25 points26 points27 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Guy tries to say something I just tell him in the ear that he's probably way too late and that I'm way too far ahead and he should stop trying.
Savage.
[–]Graf-Koks 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Keep_Austin_Free 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My game has significantly increased by dropping the alcohol. It is a lot easier to hold a conversation and be charming while sober. I know it's not for everyone, but if you get any type of anxiety and feel the need to drink, you should fight the urge and challenge yourself to approach without the liquid courage. You are in complete control when you're not drunk. Here's the kicker: you drive her home without worrying about getting pulled over or killing someone.
[–]g4casting 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're right, I actually don't drink for any other reason than to have fun, and I'm not a heavy drinker but sometimes you get carried away becausz the night is rly fun, got offered many shots and a pint as well so you just go over the top. Sucks that it was that night though.
[–]N3sh108 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dude, I hate to say this but your attitude is completely messed up. You went from caring too much about girls (I assume) to caring too little.
Seducing is about being free of social norms and not be afraid to approach seemingly unapproachable people; not being drunk, kissing a hot girl and being so damn happy about it because you don't care.
I write this because I think when this kind of posts come up, there should always be someone reminding that seduction (and this subreddit), for some people, is not about being a self-righteous dick to people but about being true to yourself.
P.S. Drop the booze during your gaming session, just a suggestion.
[–]g4casting 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
First of all, wasn't a gaming session, i don't do "gaming sessions". I don't cold approach during the day or anything. I was having a party with friends and this girl joined because her friend called her. She happened to be beautiful and I wanted her.
And secondly, I think you read my post backwards. I am not happy at all about not feeling it, it's actually the main problem of this interaction. I had the opportunity to get intimate with an awesome and very hot girl but I was numb and didn't feel what I hoped I would feel, which I blame on being drunk and tired. Sounds weird to me that you could think I wrote this trying to brag about "I kissed her and had 0 emotion wow so awesome". It's the opposite I wish I hadn't been that drunk and numb to live the moment
[–]alterpersona 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your post reminds me of the game. People respond to that book by reputation, this awesome pua on top of the world shit, but actually if you read it, it's kind of a bummer and that life ends up being empty.
If you have her number, what do you have to lose by inviting her for a sober coffee date? Maybe sounds like a step backwards, but maybe that's what you need. You were the life of the party, now be a normal dude. IDK.
[–]dickbag63 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you got drenched in GEEZE pal
[–]cryogen 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn't feel bad. It's entirely possible you weren't attracted to her personality. I get so bored if a girl can't match me intellectually. Or, she just seems so basic with no unique ideas or interests or views. It's enough to make any girl make me go soft. I suppose that's different if you're just trying to bang, but I can't help that even for just sex either.
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