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Twobithatter · 2017-09-01T06:27:42+00:00

After picking up girls for awhile I stopped believing in the whole she's different or special stuff.

brianbria · 2017-09-01T07:06:51+00:00

I used to believe, I would break down in tears if I approached a woman and she would see how emotional and broken I am. I've approached many girls, and that doesn't happen.

I used to believe, girls would be very harsh in their rejections or yell at me for being too direct. After being direct with many girls, I've realised MOST girls laugh or react positively even if they are not interested in me for being sexual or direct. Most rejections are very polite as long as I appear confident. A rare few may be harsh, but they are very rare.

I used to believe women only like bad boys or jerks, but soon I realised women like me and I'm not a bad boy or a jerk, that's just a label or stereotype for a set of behaviours. Girls like all kinds of things.

ViciousKnids · 2017-09-01T22:28:54+00:00

The most important thing I've learned - and this is solid lifestyle advice too - is that you're under far less scrutiny than you think. People are pretty preoccupied with their own business to really care too much about people in passing. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you can start being yourself and comfortable in social settings.

GameAndGains · 2017-09-01T13:20:51+00:00

I learned that a women with a boyfriend/husband means nothing to them. It's just a shit test they have to say before I rail them out. They want me to persist through it. If they really cared for their significant other, they wouldn't be at the club without him. Shit 90% of the time they don't tell me, tell after the lay.

Why puas on seddit want girlfriends is beyond me, after seeing how easy it is to snatch them away from all of our collective field experience.

Throwawayanthy · 2017-09-01T07:29:38+00:00

Wow I have a way different way of thinking after being really successful with women.i used to think women didn't want a guy to push sex and to be a perfect gentlemen.I was wrong and now feel like women do want sex and wanna have some steamy fun too .So I'm more forward and flirty and make sure they know I'm interested right away by checking them out in front of them.I used to think girls wanted mr perfect but they rather have a guy with edge.I also now try to dress trendy and look like a fuck boi.Women eat that shit up and will sleep with u easier .I used to dress sophisticated and girls didn't care for it at all and thought it was weird.

magezudo · 2017-09-01T12:20:32+00:00

Sex is sex. You don't need to be James Bond to Fuck.

Makakka2002 · 2017-09-01T16:38:03+00:00

The worst that can happen is you not approaching girl you find attractive.

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