ex girlfriend of 2 years contacted me a few days ago over email

GameAndGains · 2017-09-10T03:08:11+00:00

Bro, she is just stringing you along for validation. If she really wanted to see you, she would of saw you already.

She has already flaked on you multiple times.

My guess is she just got pumped and dumped by some other dude and is feeling vulnerable and wanting to be comforted by someone familiar.

You have no abundance. You should have been the one to cancel on her multiple times and make her chase you, better yet actually being busy with life yourself. Instead she has you right where she wants you, chasing her like a good little boy jumping through her hoops for a date.

Stop being so naive. Tell her to either meet at a certain time somewhere and just go no contact if she refuses again. She is an ex for a reason man.

toiletpaper4000 · 2017-09-10T02:58:05+00:00

Female here. Given the hour it really just seems like she was bored, possibly drunk and lonely and hit you up to pass time or feel wanted. I wouldn't put too much stock in getting her back or whatever. Especially since she keeps pushing back when she wants to meet up, it's looking unlikely you may ever meet up again. Hopefully it works out in your favor though!

Hector_Castillo · 2017-09-10T06:02:07+00:00

I replied that the picture was a great night and I miss that. She then said she wants to have a two year post break coffee catch up.

Should have left out the bold part.

But then yesterday evening, she said that she wanted to make it earlier because she had plans a few hours later. I was pretty bummed and voiced that to her over text

Again, bold. Just say, "Oh okay, no worries."

But then yesterday evening, she said that she wanted to make it earlier because she had plans a few hours later. I was pretty bummed and voiced that to her over text.

She was reacting to your strange reactions. Her nostalgia wetness turned into, "there's a reason we're not together anymore."

But all of this can be avoided by simply not getting back with ex's. It is 100% of the time a bad idea, every time.

DrBalance · 2017-09-10T04:37:15+00:00

As soon as she started changing the time she took control of you and you lost it.

Not that 'it' was a good idea to start with. Just block, ban, rmk as gamers say.

DavidGolani11 · 2017-09-10T02:55:47+00:00

You blew it.

You should have just said okay, meet with her and see if she wanted to fuck.

Title	ex girlfriend of 2 years contacted me a few days ago over email
Author	mersh4000ad
Upvotes	13
Comments	12
Date	September 10, 2017 2:54 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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