Thanks to a user I don't remember unfortunately who started daily approaching and posting the results here. You inspired another man to finally take action!
So today I woke up with the intention of this day being the first day of me daily approaching girls, everywhere I go. Last time I approached 2 weeks ago in the bus, got hyped but after a couple of days of not taking any action the hype left me and I was again afraid.
I was going to university today. Waiting at the bus stop, I noticed that a pretty nice girl is approaching the bus stop. She had a red purse, very standing out, so I knew at once what opener to use. Unfortunately, I hesitated, a moment passed and I still stand there. It sucks. We got on the same bus, and we both get off the bus at my university, after which she went her own way. I'm pissed off, I'm going to class.
Inside the building I called the elevator. The elevator arrived, there was a nice blonde inside. I go inside and she does not leave. I chose my floor, and when the door closed, I say: "You're riding an elevator just for fun?". She laughed and replied "No, I just missed my floor" with a smile on her face. She went out straight after that. Yeah. First success. It was an approach right? Feels good. I went to the class.
After class, as I went down the stairs I noticed a pretty girl was standing at one floor. I should go, but I did not do it. Also at the bus stop, which is always stuffed with students I had at least 2 occasions to talk but before I gathered the balls to do something, it took some time and I realized that after 2 minutes of standing it would be creepy if I suddenly came up. So this is something I need to work on - getting out of my head and just doing it i think.
My road from the university to home requires me to change to another bus, so I go to another bus stop, and here is the surprise - next to me goes the same chick who I saw earlier (the one with a red purse), with two friends. They followed me to the bus stop. I stood 2 meters away from them and they talked, I noticed that this one with a purse is talking very fast, so that she can barely catch her breath, which made me chuckle inside. Her phone ringed and she left her friends a few feet away, they were standing with their backs to me, maybe this was the case my approach anxiety disappeared suddenly.
So I went over and said to the friends, "Excuse me, I have a question. Is your friend a rapper?"
The girls laughed and replied: "You better ask her yourself." I introduced myself and the girls told me their names. At that moment, we all are smiling, and I am already fucking excited that I did not chicken out completely this time.
I continued: "Well, I stood here and listened to you, and I wonder if she would give me her CD maybe" which made more laughter. I asked were they are studying etc., and we talked for a moment.
A rap-fasttalker-girl (Let's name her "H") talking on the phone noticed that I approached her friends and made big suprised eyes. Her friends: "You better end this phone call!". H: "What's going on here?" Me: "Hi. Will you give me your autograph?" She laughed and asked what was going on. Me: "I heard you talking, and I wonder if maybe you're a rapper?" She laughed again. I introduced myself and gave my hand. I said, "Hey, I saw you 2h ago on my bus stop. How long have you been following me?" She laughed and asked at what stop. I replied. She: "Well, I've been living here for 2 months." Me: "You've been stalking me for 2 months? Nice." All the girls laughed and got on the bus because it just arrived.
The girls sat down and I stood next to them. We talked about the university for a while, H asked me what subject I study, I told her, and I said, "I think I'm too stupid for this because I'm in the same year for the second time." They all laughed. I told them to learn so they did not end up like me, with a smile. They replied that they had an exam in one week, so we talked about that, about my eccentric math teacher. The girls told me about a guy in their group that made a bet that he will go and make a selfie with a scary teacher which honestly was hilarious to me. I said "I would not be brave enough to do that!".
My stop came, so I said, "Well, this is my stop." H: "I'm going further, because I have to do..." (I did not hear)
I said goodbye giving them handshakes and saying with a smile: "It was nice to meet you. We'll see each other somewhere in the uni probably".
End of story.. for now. The day didn't end yet.
What I noticed is I think I should show more intent to the girls instead of just chatting. And somewhere in the middle of the conversation I allowed myself to get into my head again somehow.
So, thanks again guys on this sub for inspiring me to change my life for the better. I'm at the beginning of this journey.
TLDR: I approached a 2(3?) set for the first time after chickening earlier, and managed a nice little chat in the bus.
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