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Feared4life · 2019-03-25T22:53:28+00:00

That’s the way cold approach works. You only approached 8 girls. You can land one with that amount if you’re lucky. Up your approaches to 100+ and you’re bound to get one.

Also lower your standards if you approach nothing but 8-10’s lower to 6-7 and try to get them.

erect_sean · 2019-03-26T02:21:45+00:00

So you're cold approaching which is amazing because not many people actually do it congrats on that. As far as pointers go

-I don't drink much, or at all some nights and I still go out with friends (or solo) to bars or clubs. At the end of the day it's the best place to actually approach because there's so many girls to talk to. You can probably find a FWB through daygame but there's a higher chance going out at night to bars.

-Going in direct is great because it builds confidence and you're actually letting your intentions known the second you open. However I think you're pushing too hard asking for a drink in the opener. A comparison I can think of is this: imagine I tell you right now to quit your job to come work for my company, would you do it? You would probably want to ask me about my company to get to know what you're getting into. This is similar to your situation, tell her that you like her, that's perfect, then chat with her for a while to get to know her and show her your personality and for you to get to see hers. If you think she's worth going on a date with then you ask for a numner/insta/date whatever.

Good luck out there

IntoxicatedOrange · 2019-03-26T04:03:58+00:00

Don't tell her you like her / ask her out on the first line, she knows nothing about you and you know nothing about her so why would she want to go on a date with you? And it makes you look like you have no preferences / criteria from her perspective. Approach with a different opener and get to know her a bit, try to set up the conversation so that she finds out things about you that show you have value without just saying them outright, and then ask her out.

runningwiththebulls · 2019-03-26T06:38:26+00:00

Focus on chatting with them first and figure out where in the interaction they lose interest. It's unlikely they were truthfully about having boyfriend's so figure out at what point the interaction went to shit. If the open went well was it because you have food game or came across as harmless/just a friend. Did it go bad when you tried to physically escalate or sexually compliment her.

WIA20XX · 2019-03-26T00:45:44+00:00

What guru are you following?

WhatsReddit123456 · 2019-03-26T18:58:42+00:00

I'm confused, you have had LTR, but still a virgin?

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