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[–]IllStep 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Never got a daygame lay. Got a fair few nightgame lays, though
[–]NjguypAP26 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Same night or on a later date?
[–]IllStep 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've only EVER had one night stands. I can't even imagine going on a date!
[–]bournit 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Same for me bro, I'm going through a period in which I've no daygame results (I'm in it since 3 months). But I'm thinking is a matter of numbers, a lot of coaches say that they passed through the years of "1 number per day" , but this period was no productive in any way.
The time you spent in daygaming in terms of days is not relevant, number of approaches is. Maybe because 1 or few numbers in a day (I mean less that 3) make you too much focused on that "special" ones (for me is unfortunately like this).
I hope that with more approaches (10/day could be perfect) you can have much better results, dates and lays !
I'm also gonna try out this increasing in number of approaches per day. In any case , remember: a lot of dudes leave daygame too early, do we want to be one of those ?
Agree and I have no intention of leaving daygame. It has actually helped me build my confidence and social life. I feel more confident now talking to people at work or any stranger at the bar. It’s amazing and I am sure if we put in the work, we’ll definitely get the results. Right now I am approaching may be 5 girls per week but I should be approaching 5 girls per day for 3 days of the week. I also don’t do night game, I approach girls at the malls, shops and grocery stores.
[–]bournit 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah ! It sounds good 5 per week ! (for me I can't say the same , for me you're basically a model to follow) But 5 per day , 3 times at week is much better , just because once you've put yourself in the mood one day, use it to do the max as possible ;)
On the other side I've discovered that daygame is good , but the classic one is the real rewarding competition : Wednesday I went alone to an open wine aperitif , and with the daygame training on the shoulder you don't know how much easier is to approach girls and have fun ! Just because you are in the right place , where people want to know new people and to talk and have fun (Mystery was right on the "talkative" state in night game 😉)
So my advice is : join daygame and nightgame at the same time , constraining to open more sets in less time in each type of game, and you'll find out the the one type of game will work for the other : in daygame you develop balls to go and talk to strangers in the middle of day without any help (social or alcohol or music) , in the night game you develop the confidence to be that one guy that can be so confident and easy going , that indirect game will be easy as not playing at all !
[–]thepuagrinch 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m willing to bet there’s a thousand things you’re doing that are actively working against you getting laid from daygame approaches.
But before we get into that ;
How many dates are you going on a week and how many approaches do you need to make to get those dates.
[–]NjguypAP26 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree, the main thing is I am not approaching enough girls. As I said before right now I may approach only 3-5 girls per week but I am making it my goal yo go out 3 days a week and atleast approaching 5 girls per day for those 3 days.
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