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[–]skatinislife446 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You look fine, man--better than your friends--and you should easily be pulling the most out of your group. If you think you look different in the mirror every time it's because you're looking in it too much. This can cause a dysmorphia of sorts, the same way girls with the slightest bit of chub compare and obsess over it in mirrors and think they're gross and fat. Also, you look young. Men look better with age. Give yourself until at least 21-23 before fully developing.
[–]Alcatraz-12 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
wow man thanks ! I think that's one of the best compliments I ever got hahaha
Also, I didn't know that men look better with age ? Is this always true ? If yes, that would be amazing
[–]skatinislife446 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well, no one actually looks better with age, but oftentimes women's looks start decreasing beyond 25, know as the attraction "wall" and for men they can easily look good into their 30's because they develop and mature later in life.
[–]DriedUpPlum 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Try 45. Many studies have been done on this front. Typically older men will be just as attractive to a woman as an 18-20 year old man.
And, an older woman that takes care of herself can stomp an early 20s girl that is barely learning how to put makeup on the right way. Presence and obvious self care work just as much on men as they do on women.
But it doesn’t really matter. Women place far less value on looks then men do in an initial meeting.
[–]skatinislife446 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean, women are more attracted to the 45-year old man for other reasons than his looks. Also, there's literally nothing an older woman can do to make her body look like a 20-year old's. It will never have that ripeness.
[–]JohnRBuckley 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Looks matter, attitude matters, how you carry yourself matters, being well off matters, and your approach matter.
You look different in the mirror each time because you’re a shape shifter.
[–]Alcatraz-12 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
HAHAHAHAHHA woah man it's been a long time since I laughed at sth I saw online, thank you ! I'm a supernatural fan so this made it even funnier.
Also, can you answer those last questions ?
[–]JohnRBuckley 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You look fine. Style is depending on the types of women you are looking to attract. I can’t see what you’re wearing. Yet, I can tell you that women do size you up by how you present - example? Male Peacock. Look it up.
[–]Alcatraz-12 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What do you mean size me up by how I present ?
Here's a what I wore that day : https://imgur.com/1byMFI3
I don't get the peacock reference tho xD
[–]Theplayasclub 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Imagine a guy saying - “ According to my calculations”
What does he look like?
What does he dress like?
Size you up... she looks at what you’re wearing - she looks at how you stand - how you look at her - the words you use - it all determines your character as a man and if she’s attracted to that or not
[–]Alcatraz-12 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah good point !
[–]-PlushToys- 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your style is fine. You’re skinny though, hit those weights and you’ll be fine.
[–]JohnRBuckley 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What you wear matters to women, all the way down to your shoes. They judge you on how you dress. Each woman has a checklist, some are more pickier than others and make you go through more hoops before she will consider you.
Good point.
Also, can you give me some tips on wearing better shoes ?
[–]The-aa-Kaiser 7 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Sat nta mn lmeghrib ?
[–]Alcatraz-12 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
aywa mn tounes, wnti ?
[–]The-aa-Kaiser1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Pm
[–]YoKEn1231 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Sat Rak mghriby ?
[–]JxRomeo -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You are just child. You need 2 years or more to be good at game.you are missing bad boy vibe
[–]DriedUpPlum 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
False. With proper and honest training with effort anybody can start being effective as a PUA in a few weeks.
Bad boy vibe is also a myth and a woeful oversimplification of the qualities that people attribute to “Bad Boys.” We men are horrible at self reflection so trying to pull off being a bad boy generally is just going to make you an asshole.
hmm who says I don't have the bad boy vibe ?
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