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[–]Xis4sarcasm 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You wrack a disipwin
[–]FairAnalyst 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Setup a habit to go out every day at certain time for a certain length of time. Don't miss a single day for any reason.
If you happen to run across a few cute girls, then open them.
But even if you don't feel like gaming, go out anyways and walk around thinking about game at least. Within around 7 days or a bit longer, it'll become momentum (and later habit). Then by that time of day rolls around, you'll want to go out, and your brain knows you do this to get girls so then you'll be in the right mood more consistently by that time.
[–]LawdyHowLayLooYa 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like this. Super helpful. Thank you
[–]erZoption 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Do not rely on motivation.
[–]LawdyHowLayLooYa 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Elaborate?
[–]erZoption 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do you need motivation to shower everyday? If so, you will eventually get to a point where you don’t have any motivation and what happens then?
Discipline my friend, build habits are the only things you need
[–]Hisokuh 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wow, that’s a great way to put it. I needed to hear that because I always relied on motivation to go out. Just need to discipline myself better.
[–]erZoption 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know the feeling. I used to do the same in the gym before. The only way I use motivation these days is if I need a temporary boost to push me to the gym, but I never rely on it.
[–]reginalnz 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same boat as you my bro. but one advice I've been given is to not have time to think about it. Just jump straight into the set. Thinking is what causes approach anxiety. Also maybe having a wing-man or someone who will hold you accountable will help.
[–]Broadband- 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Routines and discipline. Motivation is fleeting.
[–]kevisazombie 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
get your testosterone tested on the off days
[–]LawdyHowLayLooYa 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That’s actually a great idea. Where do you go to test it?
[–]kevisazombie 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You can ask a doctor. There are also lots of new tech startups that will send you at home testing kits you mail back in.
[–]LawdyHowLayLooYa 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You got a link to one by chance?
[–]kevisazombie 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
https://www.everlywell.com/products/testosterone-test/
[–]LawdyHowLayLooYa 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s awesome thanks so much
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