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Slow down your movements and your speech, have a solid walk, aim to be upright and comfortable in your posture whenever you're stationary. Don't invest too much with your body language. If you're not looking at someone directly while talking/listening, then effect an air of being bored or spaced out.
This really explains why people think im older than I am. Im 24 and have always attracted older women since I was 19. Recently I hit it off with a 35 and 33 year old who thought I was a similar age. But what you described is my natural demeaor. I'm generally a low energy dude and in my head a lot.
So OP, know what he's saying really works.
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[–]whirleymon 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lift weights, and eat more protein.
[–]mez_lin 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Testosterone injections on the reg.
[–]parfiant 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Check out the Genuine Man series of articles by Hector Castillo on girlschase. But basically you need to go through a massive douchebag asshole phase to cultivate that edge and you tone it down later on but that edge will still be there and girls and guys alike will feel it. You will automatically go on the offensive if someone tries to step on your boundaries, etc.
[–]jenny_from_da_bloc 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Eye contact, chew gum to develop your jawline, work out, trim your hair short on the sides and back and wear a badass jacket. Act confident, do not act like an asshole though.
Having said this, I lack in most of these departments.
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[–]jenny_from_da_bloc 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd say sually it is noticeable even if you are not buff. At least your back/shoulders will look wider and your visible skin will look toned. No need to be a body builder on my opinion.
[–]High-__-there 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girls don’t care. Im skinny af and get lots,. What’s important is you mental strength, your inner constitution
[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your inner feelings of masculinity are more important. If you accept and embrace those feelings they will help determine how you are perceived. If you have masculine energy and charisma, women will notice. Many gay men have strong looking faces and beards.
[–]DaysThatEndInDie 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Baby will work in your favor as you get older, be sure to take care of your skin. Make that baby face work for you in the long game. Not having facial hair isn’t that big of a deal. Lots of guys can’t grow a beard. No biggie. Carry yourself with confidence. Male or female, confidence goes a long way. Do lots of outdoor stuff, it don’t have to be crazy intense stuff like chopping wood or building a fence, playing frisbee with friends, walking your dog, riding your bike is just fine.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Corner stone of masculinity is being strong. Lift weights , get jacked, get confident, get more self assured.
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