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STD_Tyler · 2020-07-23T01:35:37+00:00

Cutting your beard is the beginning of the end... Better to take the risk and hold your ground. The only way to have a solid relationship is to be willing to walk away.

Would a girl tell Tom Hardy or Conor Mcgregor to cut his beard because she doesn't "dig it"? Man the fuck up.

Kenic_In_MD · 2020-07-23T01:55:55+00:00

Girls only shit test guy's they're interested in. Think of it as a sort of fitness test. The only way to pass a shit test is to agree with what they said, then amplify said thing. Don't try to defend yourself or conform to their belief or perceived world view.

Example: "Aren't you too short to be talking to me?"

The only way to answer this is to agree and amplify to the point of absurdity .

Potential answer: "I like to work up the courage and talk to super tall chicks. Sometimes my voice cracks when I do it but if I wear heels I can reach their chest at least.."

It's a dumb answer, but something like this would usually illicit a laugh or too. Have fun with it, do not take a shit test personally. EVER.

she wasn't into my beard

"I'm not into my beard either, but my mountain men buddies will kick me out of the mountain man club if I get rid of it, can't have that"

She is absolutely trying to see what she can get away with. If you roll up there shaven she's just gonna laugh at you.

subduedReality · 2020-07-23T01:18:00+00:00

Did she see the beard before hand?

2020-07-23T02:35:54+00:00

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quinnmcd · 2020-07-23T04:14:28+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to Ask Seddit (/r/askseddit), not to be confused with Ask Reddit.

BonvivantNamedDom · 2020-07-23T01:49:34+00:00

Mate. Everything is a shittest. Women dont plan on testing you, they are just themselves and judge you by how you react. In every situation. Not just a few selected ones.

You already make a huge mistake by thinking about this. Thinking about it means you care about her opinion about you. And you make excuses for her. "Its maybe a hygiene thing". And if so?

She doesnt like your beard, you like your beard (i assume) so why on earth would you care or even consider shaving for her?

You put her preferences, she has for men, above your own preferences for how you want to be.

Youre still soooo far away from reaching your goals to become a ladies man. But I am glad you asked so you can improve.

What you should do now: forget about her preferences. Proceed like she never mentioned it and try to seduce her. And if she cant forget the beard: forget her. Sometimes it doesnt fit and you have to keep searching. But never compromise yourself! Once you start that crap your chances are getting even lower actually.

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