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ArabianJoker · 2020-09-20T15:48:42+00:00

In life you’re dealt a set of cards, you can either look around yourself and envy those with a better set of cards or you can look at your own set and figure how to make it work for you.

I’ve seen guys shorter than me with insanely hot women. I’ve seen guys “less attractive” than me with insanely hot women.

I’ve had hook ups with attractive women whereas my 6’3 friend struggles.

It’s all about how to play your cards. Be smart, work on yourself and be confident. If you’re not confident, fake the confidence, they can’t tell the difference.

Good luck.

TheStonedPharaoh · 2020-09-20T22:28:36+00:00

A really handsome guy I knew was a complete dickhead and tried to flirt with me. He was overly confident in his looks and showed all the girls his abs. Only made me feel disgust and I avoided him at all costs.

Same with unattractive men. This one guy I met only once tried to seem flirtatious with me by checking my ass out unapologetically, acting very clingy, and giving me strange nicknames (fruit loop, eggshells). I don't know what his deal was, but it was creepy and rude. He would have been fine if he had used some tact. You can check out a girl's ass and not be weird about it.

Whether your attractive or not, it's tact and kindness that will win hearts.

BensonInFL · 2020-09-20T02:40:09+00:00

Every where I go I see men who are taller, more muscular, more stylish than I am

Do you ever see men that are shorter, less muscular, less stylish, older, fatter, than you? In a world of 4 billion males, there are always going to be billions better and worse off than you... so what???

What chance do I have when girls would pick these guys over me any day

A classic mistake that guys make is that we value looks as the single or most important thing, therefore we assume girls are the same, but they are much more complex and value intelligence, confidence, etc.. a lot more due to biological reasons.. so your perceived lack of attraction may not be as important as you think it is

Is there any point going through 100 no's to get one person when these guys could probably only go through 10.

Is there any point in driving a car when there are race car drivers who could do it better than you? Is there any point in going to school when there are other guys who can get straight A's without studying as much as you? The fact is, there are better guys than you at everything, not just picking up girls.

But, how does someone else's experience have any effect on you? Whether there is any point to going through anything.. like going through 100 no's is only determined whether going through that effort X is worth the prize Y for YOU, and you alone...

If you can't help but observe everyone else's experience, try to learn from them, instead of being jealous of them.

-B

TheMailmanic · 2020-09-20T05:55:52+00:00

Because I want to get laid and I don't care what advantages other men are born with - I'm gonna go hard and do what I need to do to achieve what I want, no excuses

Taurusamazing92 · 2020-09-22T11:24:10+00:00

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_dannyvl · 2020-09-19T23:41:04+00:00

It’s about being the best version of yourself ... yes these giga chads can take your bitch any day of the week...but you have to move on and find someone else .... if you get really fit .. clothing that fits you well ...and get your money up , you can get a really attractive girl no matter who you are if that is what you want ... also remember that 10 years from now there is going to be a whole new “batch” of spoiled Unexpected annoying 22 year olds .... my point is work on your self because these girls are always going to be there, take a few years to grind non stop and then If you want to spend your time finding a partner that is going to take care of your kids or just want to pay to have sex with 20 year olds instead of jacking off,in my opinion people were not meant to be in monogamous relationship... it’s possible to find a faithful girl how ever they stats are out there and I don’t want to take my chances

JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2020-09-20T02:28:56+00:00

Unfortunately that is the reality of modern day dating. The best looking top tier men are always going to get the pick of the majority of women. Those of us outside this level have to scrap it out for the remaining few.

It won't change or get better anytime soon.

blck_bstinson · 2020-09-19T23:25:24+00:00

Why are you worried about them? You shouldn’t be threatened by them there’s only one person in the world who’s taller, faster, richer , etc. everyone else is lesser. It is what it is. Be the best you.

tripmepls · 2020-09-20T00:36:13+00:00

You shouldn’t be threatened by other men. Focus on developing yourself and keep your attention inward while you build

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