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itstimreddhoes · 2021-03-24T01:10:15+00:00

Some women are like that. Is that a deal breaker for you, or is it something you can move pass?

I think as long as she does respond and is willing to hang out you're golden. Don't overthink it dude.

_its_only_forever · 2021-03-24T08:29:29+00:00

Talk to her.

Tell her you want a relationship but that it seems like she's not interested because she doesn't reach out first at all, even though you two have progressed past intimacy and are both wanting a relationship. Ask her if there's something she needs or if there's something you're missing, because you need to know if this is going to become a relationship or if she has decided she'd prefer casual.

My guess - she doesn't want to scare you away by overtexting and smothering you, but she's gone the compete opposite way now and is appearing uninterested.

If she says she wants a relationship, ask if that means you are her boyfriend and if yes, you'd very much like for your girlfriend to message you first and send memes or just a hello call. This is meant to be said in a teasing/friendly way. Ie if she's your girlfriend, call or text!

An honest conversation will tell you where you're at and if this is worth pursuing.

Luckyguy_10 · 2021-03-24T01:52:55+00:00

Well, I'vw been doing that with a girl and in my case, I don't want to develop the relation you know? So I just talk to her when we see each other, otherwise I rather play it cool

Bicepsrage · 2021-03-24T09:44:15+00:00

Dont stress it some girls are like that. Had a FWB for 1 year and she initiated contact maybe 10% off the time. When you want to meet text her and repeat that until she turns you down 2 or 3 times in a row.

TheDutchFapstronaut · 2021-03-24T09:45:33+00:00

Biologically spoken: I think she has sex with you and want a relationship, because you give her comfort. The comfort releases oxytocin which creates a connection. This hormone is important for having the women’s babies raised in a comfortable environment with a caring dad.

If she doesn’t initiate contact, she doesn’t want your babies badly enough. She needs dopamine (and not oxytocin) to want your babies.

So unconsciously she wants you for comfort and gives sex in return. But for the father of the babies, you don’t give enough dopamine.

Solution: Show some alpha traits (don’t decrease the beta traits, because they are also important). You can do this by not initiating contact after you had contact. This shows your sexual value, because “you don’t need her, you are doing fine on your own”. If you have social media that she follows, show that you have fun, live your life, are an independent strong man.

And if she still doesn’t initiate contact, she probably has someone else, a extremely busy life, not enough interest in you. Then she is NOT worth it.

infinity_beyond123 · 2021-03-24T11:15:17+00:00

Like don’t text her for a week and see if she texts you, if not that means she is not really interested in it as she said.

OkIssue5589 · 2021-03-24T12:24:42+00:00

Did she say she wanted a relationship with you, or that she was just looking for a relationship?

Solid_Bat_66 · 2021-03-24T01:40:10+00:00

sorry but you are not her #1 option. she is also banging SOG

stop iniating and give her less time and see what happens, if you never hear from her move on or assume you have a mild FWB

rafr256 · 2021-03-24T02:13:30+00:00

My girlfriend right now is a horrible texter and I always think she’s not interested but when I call she says she’s waiting all day for my texts.

Some people are like that maybe FaceTime or call is a better option

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