Did I do something wrong?

Fulk0 · 2022-01-12T15:36:19+00:00

Well dude no one can say with just that info. Women are people too, have their own lifes with ups and downs and shit happens. There could be a million reasons. Here are a few:

You said something that turned her off
She met someone else
She is busy with work/studying/family...
She is having a bad time emotionally and just doesn't feel like talking to people
She wants to focus more on her daily life and not use her phone so often...

There are a million reasons. Some are related to you, most are not.

I met a girl once who I thought was way out of my league, but I tried anyways. Got her number and I tried talking to her for a couple of days but she would take hours to respond and you could tell she wasn't interested. So I just stopped. A couple of months later she saw me at a bar and came to say hi. I invited her to sit down with us and have a beer, and she did. That night we ended up making out and a couple of weeks later we started dating for 6 months.

Why did she treat me like that at the start then? Well, her father was very sick and her ex tried contacting her again after breaking up some months ago. So she was feeling down and didn't really want to talk to me at the time. It didn't have anything to do with me and the fact that I just accepted it and walked away is what made her come to say hi when she saw me.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-01-12T15:24:43+00:00

Texting doesn't do anything on its own. You're supposed to use texting to accomplish a goal. Not just to text for texting's sake.

For example, you can use texting to ask her out on a date. Then your text serves a purpose.

letsgetrandy · 2022-01-12T15:50:43+00:00

Did you ever ask her out? Or did you just think that texting regularly was your goal?

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2022-01-12T20:47:01+00:00

If you did go on dates, probably depends on how the dates went. Maybe she wanted to be kissed and you didn’t escalate? Or maybe she wanted to be fucked and you didn’t try?

Backheelfields · 2022-01-12T18:56:20+00:00

I wouldnt worry about it man, woman have it easier tbh

George97o · 2022-01-12T20:53:45+00:00

From my experience, that happens when I don't spark a girl's attraction enough and another guy who knows game better shows up and takes the girl's attention away. Or when I get boring and too predictable/ too available for her.

I think it's worth to message her again, and pursue her in a masculine and confident way. But also learn seduction. Use push pull technique, flirt with her, tease her, give her shit tests sometimes too, escalate to a kiss or sex or at least holding hands, and especially joke with her by giving off the idea that she's the one trying to pick you up. Also show her you are mainly focused on University or whatever and not her.

Title	Did I do something wrong?
Author	LuckyMathematician88
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	January 12, 2022 3:13 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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