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[–]Teamtoast 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You spoke badly about a friend behind his back? Yeah you need to get out of that habit. That’s what little girls do
[–]RyanHeartStone[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah read the pinned comment
[–]revente 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude you are overthinking. Are you interested in her then ask her on a date already...
[–]lonelyguy64 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you have to ask yourself did pass the shit then you failed. Honestly i treat all shit test like a bad joke lol.
Yeah I get that, but did my particular response work or not?
Also, could you pls elaborate what you mean by you treating them as a bad joke. Any examples?
[–]turgutaga037 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bro whatever you do but dont talk behind of your friend to girls especially if you like them
Yeah I know that, read the pinned comment :)
Also, could you elaborate on why it's bad to speak behind your friend's back to a girl you like?
[–]regional_indicator_b 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Bro this is legit cringe. Talking behind people's backs is only appealing to others who like to talk behind people's backs.
[–]RyanHeartStone[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hey read the pinned comment :)
[–]regional_indicator_b 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And?
[–]RyanHeartStone[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
More context: at the time I faced a scarcity mindset (I don't want to get into why), which is why my friend's rude insult towards me was able to get to me and make me sympathise with the girl more.
I know full well I shouldn't have spoken behind his back, but at the time I did so because he rudely insulted me (mixed with my scarcity mindset).
Everything's fixed now because I defended him later on when she accused him of being a creepy harasser.
My question is just if what I described in the Post is a shit test or not.
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