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Ditching the ego

cbman87

April 16, 2015

22 upvotes

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http://www.girlschase.com/content/egomania-blindness-you-were-born

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Title	Ditching the ego
Author	cbman87
Upvotes	22
Comments	2
Date	April 16, 2015 11:09 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/32sk2w/ditching_the_ego/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/ditching-the-ego.1386776 https://theredarchive.com/post/1386776

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[–]galactic_fury 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Really great post. I'm guilty of having done what is mentioned in the post haha: you get a few successes and then you feel that you are better than everyone else. I'm also guilty of sitting alone at the bar, but that is only when there aren't very many people in the bar itself. or maybe Im fooling myself right now also.

I think the analysis is spot on though. There is an intense amount of bitterness and fear in both men and women, and neither one can seem to see each others POV. Guys don't understand why women don't like them, women don't understand why guys don't approach them. As a result, everyone is unhappy and nobody is fucking. Which makes it great when someone without preconceptions comes into the scene (hint hint...) but I feel bad that society has not managed to teach the basic ethics and etiquette of attraction and game to so many people who really really need it.

[–]pipboy90 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link