Do not try

IntrepidFoot · 2019-10-08T21:57:40+00:00

I was thinking about something a little bit like this earlier.

When i'm trying to actually ''run game'' like tease, push pull, spike emotions, DHV, cold read etc, it never works.

But ironically, when I lose faith and decide 'game' is a load of rubbish and to just be 'normal' (open normally like 'hey' and then 'brek the rules' by asking dreaded ''interview questions'' etc - where apparently I should be spiking her emotions and negging and cold reading etc, I tend to do much better)

People often say thing like ''You got rejected because you didn't apply what you've been taught'' whereas I feel it kind of often does more harm than good lol

When i'm in the frame of mind of ''It's all just a game. Have fun. Open girls to be social. You have zero control over her attraction to you. It's out of your hands completely in the same way it is for my attraction to a girl. You're either her physical type or you aren't. Whatever. If she's into you, make a move'' I tend to do better

However, I tend to get 'sucked in' as i'm so interested in the whole 'game' thing and want to see if there's anything I could have done with a certain rejection or whatever, and then I fall back into the rabbit hole and then, the more engrossed in it I become, the worse I tend to do with girls again lol

Maybe there's also an element of different things working for different people. I'm sure there are people who like teh mysterymethod with all of his rules and stuff in his m3 model, but maybe that approach just isn't for everyone

sojananas · 2019-10-08T19:50:12+00:00

👍

axe122 · 2019-10-08T22:32:52+00:00

The key I’ve found is don’t try and do all the techniques you learned in the same set. Until it’s natural it’s overwhelming and inauthentic. I do highly recommend starting with a simple push pull after your opener ( it’s really just flirting with a title) then just talk to her and see what happens. Once you get that down try push pull plus a neg. do each one like 10 semi successful sets (a set where your getting positive response)even if you don’t get laid or they don’t answer the phone if they were at least having fun your on the right path. Slowly put things together and see what works for you and your personality and what doesn’t. As for interview style questions I would highly recommend staying away from them, they only work when a girl thinks your hot and or doesn’t have a lot of options. You can ask questions but make it fun not like “so you come here often”her “sometimes” you “ what kind of music do you like?” Her “country” You can ask her what kind of music she likes but then you should talk about it with her maybe ask why or explain that you hate country and why you hate or love it.

YouNeedToChillDude · 2019-10-09T16:15:50+00:00

That's probably why only girls i don't really care about are interested in me.

Kylemoa1 · 2019-10-08T22:39:40+00:00

Good job. Keep it up.

Icatchbutterflies · 2019-10-09T07:19:50+00:00

That is because you are try hard.

With any skill you first have to learn and than relax and forget actively focussing on it.

When you are relaxed and having fun you don't forget everything about seduction.

When I am anywhere and meet a girl by random chance. All what I have learned kicks in naturally. And than I have the best results.

The difference is usually that you have to talk and hang with other people before you approach. You have to warm up socially.

It is normal if you haven't talked to anybody that day and approach someone at the grocerie that you are nervous af.

Even advanced guys still have to warm up.

Even you haven't warmed at least do the 3 second rule so you don't have time to become nervous and fuck up.

Title	Do not try
Author	diamondpupper
Upvotes	17
Comments	9
Date	October 8, 2019 7:42 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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