Do people on Seddit mostly learn seduction for one night stands or long term relationships? For those of you who use it for one night stands do you ever intentionally lead the girl on, making her think that the relationship could lead to more?

Keranu · 2014-11-09T07:20:42+00:00

Yes, but I dont recommend it, in my experience it lead to me being in an empty relationship that eventually leads to a nasty breakup cause we werent clear on goals. My last relationship ended this way, I wanted sex, she wanted more i guess. now I'm just up front with women, if all i want from you is a 1 night stand, I may not say it straight from day 1, but you'll know the score before we become confused on feelings and whatnot

Spiderman48 · 2014-11-09T06:35:51+00:00

This is a diverse sub. People have varying goals here, there are guys who pursue long term relationships and guys that don't. Some of those guys who do it for one night stands do lead those girls on making them think it is going to lead to a relationship.

I think for the most part, people come here for a specific girl, then they realize that it isn't actually a healthy outlook. Then they spend time shopping around and eventually they find someone who is a great fit for them.

DaygameCoach · 2014-11-09T06:37:07+00:00

You don't need to lead her on. Plenty of women want ONS or casual. Do some research on game for ONS (including the logistics questions)....plenty of coaches have written about it.

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