Does anyone else in this sub have a stutter but still like cold approaching?

laced1 · 2026-07-01T15:03:02+00:00

I used to have a bad studder but I learned to control it with slow talks, deep breaths and light pauses in conversations. You can watch YouTube videos on this.

For approaching, I used to studder horribly and all the time because I felt like everyone was watching me but eventually you stop giving a fuck about it or even rejection. Now I can approach basically any girl and I rarely studder because I go in with the idea that she'll reject me so idc. It still gets me numbers and I still get laid

proweather13 · 2026-07-01T14:44:19+00:00

I have a stutter. But most of the time I'm able to get control of it.

Back2theCouture · 2026-07-01T14:59:41+00:00

A friend of mine has it. When he approaches people sometimes he purposely makes it longer. So the first stutters are the real one, he just adds fake ones in the end. That’s what he told me.

Which is hilarious considering his reasoning. He said he genuinely wants to see responses from people. He found out that vast majority of people are patient enough waiting for him finishing his sentence. It’s kinda like a shit test borderline being a jerk lol. But I guess that’s how he builds his confidence.

Come to think of it one day I was like “wait, by doing this aren’t you getting rid of it eventually?” He said no he still has it. But one day I was messing with him by sending him a YT video of people with Tourettes and I go “how do we know if their Tourettes are real? Maybe your stutter isn’t either? LoL”

Prestigious_Water336 · 2026-07-01T15:12:32+00:00

Mine used to be terrible.

After watching a speech therapist he taught me a couple things.

Don't preform your words. For instance don't take your tongue and put it on the roof of your mouth anticipating your going to struggle with the word.

Also normal speech isn't perfect. There's gaps,pauses, stutters, in normal speech.

You think your going to stutter but your not if you just talk and don't think about it. It's you thinking your going to stutter is causing you to stutter. It's ironic. By you trying to prevent yourself from stuttering is causing you to stutter.

laptopglass · 2026-07-01T16:14:31+00:00

I briefly knew a guy with a really bad stutter. Like, it was so bad that it could take like 10-20 seconds to get a word out and he did a special breathing technique to be able to speak.

Anyway the guy was very charismatic and he does motivational speaking now. I think the key was also just not giving af, he didn't seem to care or have any shame about it.

MoodyButGroovy · 2026-07-02T08:27:48+00:00

I have anxiety sometimes if I'm feeling particularly anxious I use it as an opener.

"Hi, I have anxiety, but don't worry. My doctor say it's not contagious."

So maybe you can turn that stutter around to an opener?

badabing654 · 2026-07-03T20:50:53+00:00

No one cares unless it’s super bad and obvious. In fact if the girl likes you she will find it cute

Title	Does anyone else in this sub have a stutter but still like cold approaching?
Author	United-Implement-382
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Date	July 1, 2026 2:38 PM UTC (3 weeks ago)
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