Does kissing/getting number always indicate enough attraction?

crawleycrepe · 2019-09-04T09:36:15+00:00

Wow - I could have written this post (I'm older too and hook up with younger girls and often experience what you describe)

So, as you've learnt, the answer is NO!! haha

Young girls are flakey and skittish. They're more likely to bang the guy they think is a '6' in their social circle than meet up with the stranger she thinks is an '8' who she kissed in a bar last night

I made out with possibly the hottest girl i've ever kissed a few weeks back after approaching her in a bar. She'd just turned 18 that week and looked like Lana Lang from smallville lol - I could literally be her father age wise lol. We flirted, talked, got sexual, and we made out and stuff. She had to go (friend was puking) but she insisted I take her number. She texted me within an hour telling me how much fun she had. She then facebooked me first thing in the morning just to say 'hi' and again tell me she had fun. I replied something like ''We should go out again soon'' and she was like ''Definitely! I'd love too !!!xxxxxxxx''

I then text her the next day trying to nail down an actual time like ''Hey, lets go out on Tuesday or Thursday for a drink'' and she was suddenly all ''I'm basically always working. Not sure i'll be able to meet you any time soon at all tbh x'' kind of thing. Basically a dead lead now lol (nobody is that busy, That was her saying 'i'm not interest now')

I tend to always push hard for the same night lay now as i know that if I don't get it that night, it's basically dead

WIA20XX · 2019-09-04T11:06:13+00:00

It seems to mostly happen with the youngest, hottest girls.

Nature of the beast. Not even sex means anything to them.

You gotta get over the fact that she doesn't value what you value.

Young girls live in the now.

Dimenzije90 · 2019-09-04T07:58:48+00:00

Even sex doesnt mean the other person is that attracted to you. Just stop thinking about do they like you enough and shoot your shot.

Paltenburg · 2019-09-04T09:59:24+00:00

Apparently it isn't :) So lesson learned, add it to your experience.

devilkingx2 · 2019-09-04T12:14:06+00:00

Girls are crazy and don't make sense. There's a few rules to keep in mind:

There is no tomorrow (it's infinitely harder to see her again if she isn't already in a place you are, and the next time you see her it's likely that things won't go so smoothly)
Profit off of the interaction while you can (get as much out of a girl as possible when you see her and always try to get as much from her as you give or more, there's no point in investing because of rule #1)

2019-09-04T12:20:03+00:00

Bro, girls are weird, period!? Don’t beat yourself up about it, it’s just the way they are!

KingRemu · 2019-09-04T09:03:26+00:00

I hear people saying that bar/club pulls don't often yield longer relationships because the girls are drunk and might not feel the same about you in the morning. I only have two pulls from the club under my belt but both of them were still interested in the morning. I had a 2 month summer fling with the other one and the other girl I hooked up with 2 weeks ago and we're still texting and she seems really interested but we live in different cities.

Mind you we built a really deep connection with both of the girls as well as having sex so that's probably why.

DonJuan2261 · 2019-09-06T12:49:16+00:00

Thanks guys for posting replies. Younger girls definitely are crazy and live in the now, and I agree same night lays are the thing to shoot for.

Interesting post u/crawleycrepe sounds very similar to some of my experiences.

They're more likely to bang the guy they think is a '6' in their social circle than meet up with the stranger she thinks is an '8' who she kissed in a bar last night

I guess this makes sense, they have no shortage of guys after them so why go out of their way or take a chance.

Interested to hear if other guys agree with this?

AFL-NOEL · 2019-09-04T10:15:08+00:00

Like @crawley mentioned below.. go for the first night hookup and if that doesn’t go down I’d definitely try and set something up as soon as possible but don’t be shocked if that is it for that experience (you could always run into her again and w/ social media it’s a great way to let your stories/posts do long game follow up for you) most importantly keep approaching & setting up additional options for yourself which always makes your vibe stronger and leads to a lot more first night hookups w/ girls like this.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami for added inspiration, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/DiU84jHbFVg

Title	Does kissing/getting number always indicate enough attraction?
Author	DonJuan2261
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	September 4, 2019 7:37 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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