Does showing intent actually matter?

SandAccomplished3889 · 2021-07-29T21:05:53+00:00

You show intent to figure out where she’s at. If shes not there then on to the next.

Optymistyk · 2021-07-29T21:05:36+00:00

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earsurgery9 · 2021-07-29T21:13:33+00:00

there's all kinds of different opinions on this, because there's all kinds of different theories that PUA coaches sell

For example, some PUA's would strongly advise to show intent from the get go and tell her she's hot. And again, their reasons for doing so vary

Some say you need to do it because she KNOWS why you are talking to her. And that you're basically hiding your penis by being indirect and not showing intent, thus lowering your value

Other PUA coaching experts who are 'pro direct' say you need to be direct, because this actually MAKES her attracted (in the same way indirect PUA experts might say negs and cold reads MAKE her attracted and to NOT show intent first)

Having said all of that, i'm of the opinion that it doesn't matter (and the fact that all of the 'experts' disagree should kinda confirm that lol)

You are either her type or you aren't. If you are, direct is fine. So is indirect. And if you aren't her type, you never stood a shot either way

So do what you feel most comfortable with

TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-29T21:13:50+00:00

Some girls give subtle signs that 99.9% of guys will miss them - so no, don't just look for signs.

Yes, always show your intent - otherwise you're just another "nice guy" beta talking to her or making cheesy compliments.

Title	Does showing intent actually matter?
Author	Optymistyk
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	July 29, 2021 9:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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