I’m 17 and I hang with a lot of graduated seniors. We went to the beach with 2 girls (I’m very interested in one) and 3 other guys. The guys were wrestling in the ocean and one of the guys was beating the other 2 guys repeatedly.

I already knew I could win because even though they are about the same size as me I’m pretty strong and one of the guys was getting cocky.

So the girls told me I should wrestle him so I shrugged my shoulders and we wrestled and I won both times and slammed him the second lol. Then I wrestled the other two and won.

I kept my cool and sort of showed that I wasn’t surprised that I won, was a good sport and everything.

Does being the strongest in the group and probably the most confident show dominance or make me the “alpha”? Especially if I kept my cool?

Ps: I know this seems like I’m seeking validation but I promise I’m not lmao. I’m genuinely curious. I’ll take any criticism.