First kiss... not so great.

lobomos · 2019-01-02T17:45:06+00:00

Worry less about it and it will get better. Dwell on it and you will just shoot yourself in the foot, have fun.

Kenic_In_MD · 2019-01-02T20:08:52+00:00

Wait till you get to the "had sex with a girl and it didn't go very well" lol. Most of the times seconds and thirds are way better than the first. Don't buy into that romantic novel/movie garbage. 90% of the time its a bit awkward until you get more comfortable with each other.

2019-01-02T17:43:22+00:00

Yes. Magical first kisses are not a thing, for most people at least. Gets better with practice! ;)

TeamAgent · 2019-01-02T20:12:43+00:00

I can actually relate a lot to this at the moment. I kissed/fooled around with someone for the very first time at a New Years party and it honestly feels underwhelming compared to what I was expecting. Granted I don’t really hold any strong feelings for her and we were both reeeeaally drunk when it happened. I don’t regret it though.

I think that people put way to much focus on “firsts”. Your first time with anything doesn’t really matter. If anything I’m glad that I at least have a tiny bit of experience now and will feel more confidant going forward from now on.

abandonliberty · 2019-01-03T03:50:42+00:00

What are you talking about? The only part of this that wasn't great was your friends getting there. Your perspective here is pathetic.

You overcame your fear, kissed the girl, managed the laugh at yourself, and she's clearly into it. You didn't even clink teeth :D

What the heck else do you want? Enjoy it, because one day it won't be nearly as exciting. Everything feels much more magical the first few times. Enjoy the present, be present. You only get to experience this once because every experience is different.

WhiteKoala__ · 2019-01-02T18:13:10+00:00

Sound to me like you had a good time! My first kiss wasn’t perfect either

lord_syphilis · 2019-01-02T23:17:32+00:00

don’t worry bud, first kiss isn’t the most perfect but a special memorable one. I remember my first kiss when I was 15 and it was nothing like I had imagined. it was wet and smelled of saliva but I enjoyed it anyway.

DatingCoach111 · 2019-01-03T00:22:57+00:00

My first kiss was fucking horrible. It was like kissing a fucking statue. You’re good.

girl_rediscovered · 2019-01-02T20:57:33+00:00

First kisses, even when you meet a new person... Well, they can suck a bit. Different people kiss different ways and getting your methods to match takes some work. Don't worry, it will get better

KindnessWins · 2019-01-03T04:01:39+00:00

Yes. And ask yourself the why's. If she wasn't into you would she be hanging out alone with you?

You don't have to kiss on the lips. There are 3 types of girls.

The deer caught in headlights
The ones that move toward you
And the soft turn shyaway.

1 and 2 are fine. Never rush in. Move as slow and as confident and as smooth as you can.

3 the soft turn isn't a rejection.

When it happens, touch the tip of your nose to the jaw. Then your top lip. Then the bottom. Kiss the side of the neck. Very softly bite the neck and or shoulder and flash a soft but mischievous smile. Use both hands to pull her onto your lap. Be slow and masculine about it. Gently scratch the thigh down to the knee as you once again kiss the shoulder and the two of you begin to get aroused. Kiss the side of the tummy then the side of the hip. Continue this for about 20 minutes. If she tries to jump you tell her that any action on her part will lead to her being punished and that you won't give her this.. [pull out Lindt mint chocolate, black licorice, or a box of strawberries]

TTV-DontEvnTrip · 2019-01-02T23:36:00+00:00

Sounds like you might of given her cooties , be careful they can kill you if you don’t get it checked out by a doctor 👨‍⚕️

el_pistoleroo · 2019-01-02T19:53:46+00:00

My first kiss was perfect. I have no idea what I was doing but I was very calm and went with the flow. It just came naturally. She even told me I was good at it. I just said "I know" like Han Solo,for some reason. She just gave an orgasmic exhale. Apparently confidence is attractive

Title	First kiss... not so great.
Author	Renegader933
Upvotes	28
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Date	January 2, 2019 5:20 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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3 the soft turn isn't a rejection.