I’ve always had it rough in the attraction department. I’m 16. I started out with 0 confidence.. attracting 0 girls. I’m 5’7 and slightly above average looking with an average build/a little chubby with some muscle.

I started reading about confidence and “faking it til you make it”. I thought it was bullshit, but what did I have to lose anyways? So I tried it.

I started making more eye contact with girls. Holding it for longer. I walked with my back straight, shoulders back, and my head up.

After making these small body language differences, my very attractive friend (I don’t use the 1-10 scale) I’ve known for a year kept flirting with me and I noticed. I asked her out. She’s my girlfriend now.

A hot girl on the bus keeps staring at me. She said hi to me the other day when I got on. I was acting very confident and she noticed.

She was showing all kinds of positive body language when I talked to her and if I wasn’t in a relationship, she lives right next to my house and I could’ve asked her to come over.

Girls I never knew are starting to look at me/talk to me. Everything is changing for me just because of these simple confidence changes. Even guys want to be my friends now, which never happened before.

I’m starting to feel the confidence now. It’s no longer fake.

Fake it til you make it. Good luck!