Whenever I red someone say 'just learn game' they make it sound like juggling, but then when I ask them to clarify what sort of things that mean, it's always things that I always think any 'normal' person wouldn't need to 'learn'

I might ask them t break down an approach and They're like ''I approach with good body language. I open and say something to get a conversation started. Ask them some questions about themselves, make some statements. Then once we are talking and she seems interested, i'll start showing my intent and escalating. And then, i'll take her back too my place''

I'm like ''Errrr.....and you had to learn that? Show that paragraph to any normal functioning guy and he'll think that this is just common sense. A bit like learning how to swallow your dinner!'' lol

This feels more truer than ever since the days of learning (memorising) lines and routines and stuff have gone and now it's all about 'being your best self', 'what ayou say doesn't matter' etc.

So, i'm curious. Those of you who find yourself writing things like ''just learn game, bro!'', can you elaborate? What kinds of things do you say in interactions and do that you didn't before? What things have you 'learnt' that your 'normie' friends don't know? What is your tangible 'edge' in terms of these things that separates you from people who haven't 'learnt game'?