Hey there guys, this method that I discovered works mainly for the people that go to the gym, so you can stop reading here if you don't go gym.

Ok, I know that a lot of us newbies have a hard time with texting a girl. We don't know what we should say, or what she will think if I said it, or how we should word it, or is it even an interesting topic? The more we think about it, the worst it gets. Finally we just throw out the idea of texting the girl at all and feel shitty for the rest of the day... Well, that's how it usually progress for me anyways.

Just the other day, I was doing my usual work out routine, and it started with the bench press. I did my reps, feeling extremely lazy and bored, and I just felt very unmotivated to work. During my rest time, about 3 minutes in between each set, a thought of this girl i met the day before popped into my head. I thought "Aha! lets text her." The initial plan was to flirt and try see if we could get together tonight, however, i was cock blocked by my own mind, and pussied out.

I got mad at myself and got back down to bench and did another 10 reps. This time, feeling pretty pumped and I completed the set without a sweat. I added another 15 lbs on each side of my bar. On a usual day, i wouldn't be able to bench press this much, but i thought since i'm pumped, i might try my luck.

Another thought popped up. I challenged myself that if i can do more than 8 reps, i will text the girl "hi", if i can't i will text her something sexual about myself. With that challenge in mind, i laid down on the bench, gripping the bar with sweat dripping down the side of my head. I really didn't know if i could do 8 reps or not, but if i don't, i will have to do something that will probably ruin my chance with this new girl. My heart started to race. I clenched my butt and benched pressed that bar like my life depended on it...

I maxed at 7...

Well, that's that. I picked up my phone, and texted:

me: "Hey! guess what?!"

Her: "yes?"

me: "I have a boner thinking about you right now."

Her: "... wtf"

My butt clenched again... I thought "damn, i'm fucked, i'm a creep now. DAMMIT!"

It was about time for me to do another set, so i made another challenge. I kept the weights the same, and told myself, "if you do 8 reps or more, text back something that implies you like her, if you do less than 8, text back something that implies you want to fuck her." Laid back down, grip the bar... 1... 2... 3... 4...

I actually got to 8 and i never felt so alive!

Texted her back:

me: Well, i just can't stop thinking about you, i get random boners at the gym now because of you.. its pretty embarassing

her: Haha xD really? aw im sorry

me: Nope, you have to make it up to me now.

her: how?

me: You gonna come with me to this coffee shop i like at 4 (2 hours later)

her: ok fine :D

And that's that... we continue texting a bit more for a few minutes and stopped. I got together with her later and we made out. That's it guys :D

Sorry for the wall of text, i just wanted to give you guys my experience.

Here's the condensed method: *Make up a challenge for yourself on what to text a girl that you like, may that be one or more girls, don't matter.

*Challenge: "If i do (#) reps, i will text her (A), if i don't, i will text her (B)."

*The idea is make (A) something scary for you text to her, and (B) something even scarier. Don't make some pussy shit.. I know my (A) was "Hi" but that was scary for me.

*Then you do your reps and commit to it. Don't lie to yourself.

This method only meant to kick start a conversation, and help you get unstuck at awkward parts of the convo. Don't use this for every single text.

It's a win win situation because 1. you are truly motivated to workout by doing your best to avoid "danger," and 2. even if you do complete your rep, you still opened the girl and started a convo. Nothing to lose here unless you pussy out... in that case i can't help you.

It's a pretty amateur trick, i know, but try it next time you're working out. Instead of listening to music, do something productive with your favorite crush. Don't take it too seriously and have fun with it. It's meant to amuse you. Good luck and have fun! :D