I've been in pick-up for over 5 years, but I only truly noticed this since I've been coaching.

People won't commit to regularly going out and practicing game...not until the pain of staying the same becomes more unbearable than the pain of changing.

I think most of us logically understand that game is a skill that can be improved by practicing.

Sure, your body matters, just as with most hobbies. Maybe your face matters a little bit.

But you can still absolutely smash it in spite of any disadvantages, just as with most hobbies.

The big difference between game and most hobbies is: your ego is and sense of self-worth is attached to your success.

Humans love to be comfortable. Ego damage is extremely uncomfortable. That’s why so many people choose to stay the same, even if they’re unhappy with their lives.

But eventually this catches up with them…The problem of girls not liking them doesn’t magically go away.

So what wakes them fully commit to changing?

In my experience, there is a catalyst. Maybe it's a break-up. A horrible night out when no girls liked them. Getting turned down after finally asking out their crush of many years. A one-year anniverssary of not getting laid. SOMETHING that makes them hit rock bottom.

A catalyst that wakes them realise they can't live like this any more.

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I've co-launched WhatsApp and Telegram groups for men that want to become incredible with women.

In these groups, guys will often post telling us they've spotted a beautiful woman but they're scared to talk to her.

The guys will respond with tips and motivation...

...and they still don't do it.

These guys hate being shy, they hate not having a girlfriend - but not enough to go through the pain of escaping their comfort zone.

The truth is: they’ve not hit rock bottom yet.

I don’t wish that for anyone - but in a way I do - because that’s what it’ll take them to start taking action.

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Some NEVER get that rock bottom moment…and just waste their entire lives without achieving success they want with women.

Others will waste years of their youth without taking action.

My hope for everyone reading is that they start working towards whatever they want to achieve TODAY. Because it’s never going to get easier.

If you want to join my WhatsApp or Telegram groups, drop me a private message with your phone number (WhatsApp) or username (Telegram).