I'll try to keep this as short as possible. There's been a 9 in my social circle that I hadn't approached 'til today, I finally grew balls. Then I just ran basic game on her (tease, challenge, qualify...) and while I was teasing her she mentioned she has a daughter & might have a husband (fuck im so stupid I should've looked if there's a ring)...So I just froze and didn't carry on, I stayed for some chit chat and said bye. So the lesson here is, please guys never waste your time...The second you see a hot girl in your social circle approach her immediately and see what her situation is! I wasted a lot of time pussying out then getting in state/out of state & a lot of shit just to grow balls & talk to her & you saw what happened.

Now I want advice from you guys: Like I said, I'm not a 100% sure she's married. I didn't check for a ring but then again many women don't wear it but are still married. I'd love to move it forward with her if she's not married but I won't if she is I'm not Hitler I won't ruin a marriage not my thing. So how do I know for sure she's not married? Besides checking for a ring...Any signs I should look for? And what should be my game plan?

Thanks in advance