Do's and Don'ts?

CoachSlyDating · 2025-03-04T00:52:34+00:00

Two steps forward and one step back. Tease a bit. go a bit further each time then pull back a bit. Sex is a very psychological experience for girls.

BonoboPowr · 2025-03-04T00:57:43+00:00

Oh boy... Seeing how you've posted this to several places, you seem to be already doing a don't: you're overthinking it. Just chill out, go for a run, meditate, calm yourself down. Don't go into this thinking like you'll have to have sex and you'll have to perform and have to be good. Just relax, don't rush things, try to stay in the moment, and enjoy yourself.

It's hard to give advice for this situation, but remember, it's ok to not know what to do, to be awkward, whatever. It happened to all of us, and she is most likely just as excited as you. She is human after all, so be patient with her, and with yourself, whatever may happen.

You can do it, good luck!

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-03-04T01:52:11+00:00

You can still have fun dates in your domain without sex. It sounds like the thought is stressing you out. If you are going to hit the sheets, wear protection and stay relaxed. You don't have to use porn as a blueprint.

Rhino3750ss · 2025-03-04T02:05:34+00:00

If she agreed to come over, all you have to do is not fuck up.

If you don't let your desire for her exceed her desire for you, you won't fuck it up.

She is interested enough to come over in the first place, so what will turn her off is you exerting effort into making her interested when she already is. Be effortless and don't get caught up in "try hard" energy.

Create gaps for her to close. Be a tease. If she leans in, lean away with a smirk.

If she initiates physical touch, tell her to behave herself.

You can go for a kiss and when you are an inch away, abruptly stop...she will probably tackle you and force making out with you.

If all else fails and you sense she won't be coming back a second time, perform the naked man. That works 2 out of 3 times, I guarantee it. Have bailout money ready for the 1 in 3 chance it fails.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-03-04T02:43:45+00:00

Just relax, show her around your place and let her get comfortable before doing anything. Do an activity together at your place. After that, it's just all about escalation. See my post, "How to pull a girl in one day".

Refrain from doing any gimmicks or heavy technical pickup stuff. Your buy-in is already very high and you don't want to lose it because you're doing something incongruent. Whatever you were doing before, do that.

Title	Do's and Don'ts?
Author	nolownewguy
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	March 4, 2025 12:38 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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